I'm sorry, divorce sucks balls. It will take time to not care. You didn't fall in love overnight and you wont fall out of love over night.
I've been out of love with him for a while. But Facebook likes to be a dick and remind you of stuff you wish you could forget.
I hear ya. My timehop/facebook still shows shit from my ex too. I tried to delete all the wedding and all pics that didn't involve DD, but somehow they still find their way back and I left him in 2011.
I think this confession goes here: I'm very strongly considering buying my cat a harness and a leash to take him for walks. I think he'd love it. But then I'd be that crazy lady walking her cat.
Not a confession, but I witnessed some dummy who brought a cat to a dog park. Guess how that went?
hmm. Trying to think of a bitch and pussy joke.
First male dog: Look at all those bitches chasing that pussy.
Second male dog: Amateurs, if they wait until it's in heat there were will be tons of other pussies to chase around and we can all get a piece of tail.
I worked at a vet's office for 6 years. The only dog that ever bit me was a Jack Russell. In my experience, smaller dogs are quicker to turn to aggression.
Obviously, not the rule. Just my experience. I will never have a small dog, for other reasons as well.
I have a theory, with absolutely no data to back it up, that part of this is because a large number of small dog owners don't feel the need to train them the way owners of bigger dogs do. Since the effects of jumping and other behavior are smaller, it's like it's not as important?
(I'm know plenty of small dog owners are good trainers too.)
Yes!! I've said the exact same thing! Like, my dogs need to go outside for walks because who wants to clean up that puppy pad. Also, because I didn't get dogs because I wanted indoor animals. I hate seeing people who leave their little dogs in the house all day and don't bother to walk them. Of course they're fucking assholes! They're going stir crazy!
I think this confession goes here: I'm very strongly considering buying my cat a harness and a leash to take him for walks. I think he'd love it. But then I'd be that crazy lady walking her cat.
First male dog: Look at all those bitches chasing that pussy.
Second male dog: Amateurs, if they wait until it's in heat there were will be tons of other pussies to chase around and we can all get a piece of tail.
I think this confession goes here: I'm very strongly considering buying my cat a harness and a leash to take him for walks. I think he'd love it. But then I'd be that crazy lady walking her cat.
We have them because I was in this phase where I felt bad that the cats are inside all the time, but I'm too freaked out to let them outside. One wouldn't even let us put the harness on; the other had it on and then just laid there so it was more dragging than walking.
Our compromise has become looking for an upstairs balcony where they can hang out (they did that at our apartment and loved it).
I have a theory, with absolutely no data to back it up, that part of this is because a large number of small dog owners don't feel the need to train them the way owners of bigger dogs do. Since the effects of jumping and other behavior are smaller, it's like it's not as important?
(I'm know plenty of small dog owners are good trainers too.)
Yes!! I've said the exact same thing! Like, my dogs need to go outside for walks because who wants to clean up that puppy pad. Also, because I didn't get dogs because I wanted indoor animals. I hate seeing people who leave their little dogs in the house all day and don't bother to walk them. Of course they're fucking assholes! They're going stir crazy!
My old neighbor had an "indoor dog". MH laughed at her because he thought she was trying to be funny.
We have them because I was in this phase where I felt bad that the cats are inside all the time, but I'm too freaked out to let them outside. One wouldn't even let us put the harness on; the other had it on and then just laid there so it was more dragging than walking.
Our compromise has become looking for an upstairs balcony where they can hang out (they did that at our apartment and loved it).
We live on the second floor and I've been letting him venture out onto the balcony, but I'm terrified of him getting too close to the edge. MH thinks I'm paranoid. He might be right.
We were usually out with them, so we just kept an eye out. I was concerned they'd try to jump onto the roof next to us or something, but the most they ever did was jump up on the railing (and after I yelled, they stopped doing that too). But they're pretty chill, and have no desire to leave their constant stream of food, water, and cuddles.
We have them because I was in this phase where I felt bad that the cats are inside all the time, but I'm too freaked out to let them outside. One wouldn't even let us put the harness on; the other had it on and then just laid there so it was more dragging than walking.
Our compromise has become looking for an upstairs balcony where they can hang out (they did that at our apartment and loved it).
We live on the second floor and I've been letting him venture out onto the balcony, but I'm terrified of him getting too close to the edge. MH thinks I'm paranoid. He might be right.
My cat used to chill on our second floor deck railing all the time. Your cat will be fine.
Post by peaseblossom55 on Apr 1, 2016 11:12:46 GMT -5
The guy on my team seems to find people he used to work with in a department 2 positions prior and loves to talk about that job. It's so weird and so incredibly annoying. Even if he's not talking to me I don't care about this position you used to hold 3 years ago. If you like it so much go back to it....
Chihuahuas are the absolute worst. Every single one I've ever met has either been really mean or completely nervous, there's been no middle ground (I realize this is guaranteeing at least one story about how amazing someone's chihuahua is)
I worked at a vet's office for 6 years. The only dog that ever bit me was a Jack Russell. In my experience, smaller dogs are quicker to turn to aggression.
Obviously, not the rule. Just my experience. I will never have a small dog, for other reasons as well.
I would think a lot of it has to do with the owners, too. It seems like a lot of people just don't take it seriously when their little dog is aggressive. My H's business partner would bring her nippy chihuahua to work and I ended up having to sew elbow patches onto his favorite wool sweater because the dog would jump up and nip at his elbows while he was working. Clearly, that dog is not fit to bring to the office and I don't care how tiny or adorable he is.
I think this confession goes here: I'm very strongly considering buying my cat a harness and a leash to take him for walks. I think he'd love it. But then I'd be that crazy lady walking her cat.
I think this confession goes here: I'm very strongly considering buying my cat a harness and a leash to take him for walks. I think he'd love it. But then I'd be that crazy lady walking her cat.
I've done that. I have a cat who thinks he's a dog. He genuinely gets sad when we take the dog on walks. He loves to sit out in the deck and look around.
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W , they have and are used to little dogs (yorkies, etc). But they are also the type of people who take the news at face value and believe everything dr Phil says.
That said, I love them, but I wish they would believe me, not the people getting paid to feed them bullshit.
I am pretty sure statistically speaking more people get bit by tiny breed dogs, but the damage they inflict tends to not be as bad so of course it isn't in the news like it is when the big dogs bite. I am in no way saying that all little dogs bite, because I have fostered plenty of tiny dog puppies who have not been aggressive in anyway. Just like I have had a pit mix foster that was a bit too aggressive for our household, as in would try to bite you for scolding him for doing something wrong, but we have had several others that were the sweetest dogs we ever fostered.
@wallflwr926 I am surprised that your husband's husky is a loner, but it does happen. Our mix isn't anti-social with other dogs, but with people outside of our immediate family she needs work. We had been taking her to socialization class where they roam in a big cage without a leash, for the most part, with all the owners and we continuously move away from her when she tries to come over and hide behind us. It has seemed to help some because she will now come sit next to one of us if regular visitors are over to the house, but she still doesn't want them to come pet her. Honestly the fact that your husky plays with a cat is surprising cause I don't think my two could get over the predator instinct towards them.
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I have a theory, with absolutely no data to back it up, that part of this is because a large number of small dog owners don't feel the need to train them the way owners of bigger dogs do. Since the effects of jumping and other behavior are smaller, it's like it's not as important?
(I'm know plenty of small dog owners are good trainers too.)
Yes!! I've said the exact same thing! Like, my dogs need to go outside for walks because who wants to clean up that puppy pad. Also, because I didn't get dogs because I wanted indoor animals. I hate seeing people who leave their little dogs in the house all day and don't bother to walk them. Of course they're fucking assholes! They're going stir crazy!
My little dog is lazy as fuck. He spends most of the day sleeping & when he does get excited we let him out in the back yard where he plays & runs around. When we take him for walks, he gets about half way around the block before he's basically like "fuck this." He's not an asshole, nor is he stir crazy.
But LOL at such a broad generalization from someone who hates that everyone assumes her dog is a vicious monster based on breed. Pot, meet Kettle.
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Post by mustloveerica on Apr 1, 2016 11:49:56 GMT -5
Every woman that my husband has ever dated has told him that he gives the most amazing shoulder massages. But really they are kind of weird and painful and I hate them.
I think this confession goes here: I'm very strongly considering buying my cat a harness and a leash to take him for walks. I think he'd love it. But then I'd be that crazy lady walking her cat.
I've done that. I have a cat who thinks he's a dog. He genuinely gets sad when we take the dog on walks. He loves to sit out in the deck and look around.
My cat gets so sad when we take the dog out he howls.
Like, you can hear him down the street if the windows are open. And from the backyard if the windows are closed. Dude is ridiculous.
W , they have and are used to little dogs (yorkies, etc). But they are also the type of people who take the news at face value and believe everything dr Phil says.
That said, I love them, but I wish they would believe me, not the people getting paid to feed them bullshit.
I am pretty sure statistically speaking more people get bit by tiny breed dogs, but the damage they inflict tends to not be as bad so of course it isn't in the news like it is when the big dogs bite. I am in no way saying that all little dogs bite, because I have fostered plenty of tiny dog puppies who have not been aggressive in anyway. Just like I have had a pit mix foster that was a bit too aggressive for our household, as in would try to bite you for scolding him for doing something wrong, but we have had several others that were the sweetest dogs we ever fostered.
@wallflwr926 I am surprised that your husband's husky is a loner, but it does happen. Our mix isn't anti-social with other dogs, but with people outside of our immediate family she needs work. We had been taking her to socialization class where they roam in a big cage without a leash, for the most part, with all the owners and we continuously move away from her when she tries to come over and hide behind us. It has seemed to help some because she will now come sit next to one of us if regular visitors are over to the house, but she still doesn't want them to come pet her. Honestly the fact that your husky plays with a cat is surprising cause I don't think my two could get over the predator instinct towards them.
They were introduced when the cat was less than 2 months old. I don't think either one of them is aware that my cat is a cat.
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I've done that. I have a cat who thinks he's a dog. He genuinely gets sad when we take the dog on walks. He loves to sit out in the deck and look around.
My cat gets so sad when we take the dog out he howls.
Like, you can hear him down the street if the windows are open. And from the backyard if the windows are closed. Dude is ridiculous.
And my cats have now graduated their walking jackets. We only let them outside with us at IL's camp, away from cars, etc. They always stay right near the house and come when we call them. Sometimes my H takes the older one for walks up the long driveway and she just trots right alongside him, it is the cutest thing ever.
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