Post by Deleted on Feb 5, 2015 6:24:20 GMT -5
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It created a very different atmosphere during the holidays but was fine (minus my aunt who thought I should have just taken a chance).
Flash forward to DH talking to his mom last night. He mentioned that his aunt, who is going through chemo, can't be around me right now. MIL argues with him for about 5 minutes saying she thinks our doctor is wrong. (MIL has zero background in the medical field...just likes to disagree).
Bitch please. It's my baby and my body and the last thing I am going to do is take any chances on endangering my unborn child's health. I'm just so annoyed. Obviously I would love to spend time with my relatives who are going through this but I'm not sorry to say that having a healthy baby is more important to me right now!!!
DH pretty much repeated himself over and over trying to get her to understand. MIL invited the aunt to the baby shower so we will see what happens. I'm not counting on mil to be supportive.
It's really sad that she's not repeating your decision and could possibly be putting your LO in danger. If the aunt is going to the baby shower that would put you in an awkward position whether to go or not; and it's YOUR baby shower. I hope MIL comes around soon!