I hate the board/sub board thing. Totally support having a private board, just wish everything was over there. It's a PITA to switch back and forth on mobile and I feel like I end up missing a lot. Not sure if this is why I've been participating less or not. I just feel out of the loop all the time and I don't like it.
DH going to a strip club is akin to cheating to me. I also hate that bachelor parties have come to routinely include going to a strip club. I would feel disrespected if DH had done that.
@hazeldublin I definitely prefer the private board, too. I like that we know who is seeing our posts, it feels "safer" I guess. I realize why we have a public board still- so new members can get involved- but it's just annoying. I'd just prefer everything to be in one place like it used to be.
DH going to a strip club is akin to cheating to me. I also hate that bachelor parties have come to routinely include going to a strip club. I would feel disrespected if DH had done that.
I don't care at all. That being said I took SO to the strip club and paid for him to have a lap dance his first and only time there.
DH going to a strip club is akin to cheating to me. I also hate that bachelor parties have come to routinely include going to a strip club. I would feel disrespected if DH had done that.
So how do you feel about him watching porn?
I dont like it but I wouldnt be upset if he wanted to. He says the stuff we have made is good for him and he doesnt watch it. Ive just always asked him not to hide it, that is what would piss me off
DH going to a strip club is akin to cheating to me. I also hate that bachelor parties have come to routinely include going to a strip club. I would feel disrespected if DH had done that.
I don't think it's the same as cheating but I also don't like it. It would annoy me to think he was in a strip club. I used to really get wound up at the thought of it, but now it would piss me off but that's about it.
I think now that H is 40 I would get weirded out on him wanting to go to a strip club with only guy friends but in our 20s I didn't care. We used to go to strip clubs together. The last time we went to one was 2 years ago and it was together to our friends bday party (she is a lesbian). It wasn't all nude either just topless which is less sleezy to me. I'm not phased by seeing someone else's boobs and enjoying a cocktail.
@hazeldublin I definitely prefer the private board, too. I like that we know who is seeing our posts, it feels "safer" I guess. I realize why we have a public board still- so new members can get involved- but it's just annoying. I'd just prefer everything to be in one place like it used to be.
Yea I can see either way. There are lurkers that came out that now are reg posters so I can still see the importance of a public board.
@hazeldublin I definitely prefer the private board, too. I like that we know who is seeing our posts, it feels "safer" I guess. I realize why we have a public board still- so new members can get involved- but it's just annoying. I'd just prefer everything to be in one place like it used to be.
Yeah I prefer it because I feel I can speak more freely. It feels more personal over there like we are getting to know each other more too. It's not as anonymous.
Agreed and sometimes I forget which Im in and overshare on public oopps!
@poppyc8 strips clubs aren't really a thing here anyway, I think there's one in Dublin that I know of. And I've heard it's pretty sleezy. Either way he went to one years ago and hasn't been since.
He got arrested on his stag in the first pub they went to, so I know he didn't even go then.
I hate the board/sub board thing. Totally support having a private board, just wish everything was over there. It's a PITA to switch back and forth on mobile and I feel like I end up missing a lot. Not sure if this is why I've been participating less or not. I just feel out of the loop all the time and I don't like it.
As a new poster, the division between a public and private board is one thing that made me hesitate jumping in. I think it's hard for newer people to feel like they're really part of the community when there are things happening over there we're not a part of. I understand wanting Internet privacy- that's never a bad thing. It's just a bit of a catch 22 to want to participate enough to get to know everyone well enough to join the private board, and yet there are only a limited amount of threads/discussions over here to be a part of.
@poppyc8 strips clubs aren't really a thing here anyway, I think there's one in Dublin that I know of. And I've heard it's pretty sleezy. Either way he went to one years ago and hasn't been since.
He got arrested on his stag in the first pub they went to, so I know he didn't even go then.
Strip clubs are def a thing in Los Angeles. In the area I used to work in called Vernon in Los Angeles (lots of factories there and commerce). there are some pretty gross ones. One of them my co-workers and I would all make fun of because it serves a free all you can eat buffet to anyone that comes during the day on their lunch break. We found out our boss went there a few times for lunch and we all side eyed that one.
@poppyc8 strips clubs aren't really a thing here anyway, I think there's one in Dublin that I know of. And I've heard it's pretty sleezy. Either way he went to one years ago and hasn't been since.
He got arrested on his stag in the first pub they went to, so I know he didn't even go then.
Keepin it klassy Mr.Hazel
Wait why did he get arrested? Move to private board?
I hate the board/sub board thing. Totally support having a private board, just wish everything was over there. It's a PITA to switch back and forth on mobile and I feel like I end up missing a lot. Not sure if this is why I've been participating less or not. I just feel out of the loop all the time and I don't like it.
As a new poster, the division between a public and private board is one thing that made me hesitate jumping in. I think it's hard for newer people to feel like they're really part of the community when there are things happening over there we're not a part of. I understand wanting Internet privacy- that's never a bad thing. It's just a bit of a catch 22 to want to participate enough to get to know everyone well enough to join the private board, and yet there are only a limited amount of threads/discussions over here to be a part of.
I totally get that and feel for you. I feel the way I do not because I want to exclude people, but simply because it is annoying.
@poppyc8 strips clubs aren't really a thing here anyway, I think there's one in Dublin that I know of. And I've heard it's pretty sleezy. Either way he went to one years ago and hasn't been since.
He got arrested on his stag in the first pub they went to, so I know he didn't even go then.
Strip clubs are def a thing in Los Angeles. In the area I used to work in called Vernon in Los Angeles (lots of factories there and commerce. there are some pretty gross ones. One of them my co-workers and I would all make fun of because it serves a free all you can eat buffet to anyone that comes during the day in there lunch break. We found out our boss went there a few times for lunch and we all side eyes that one.
Strip clubs are def a thing in Los Angeles. In the area I used to work in called Vernon in Los Angeles (lots of factories there and commerce. there are some pretty gross ones. One of them my co-workers and I would all make fun of because it serves a free all you can eat buffet to anyone that comes during the day in there lunch break. We found out our boss went there a few times for lunch and we all side eyes that one.
The thoughts of a buffet in a strop club makes me want to hurl, imagine all the nude arses leaning against shit. The place would have to be walking with germs.
They are only topless. If it's full nude I think the Los Angeles law is no food or booze. I've only been to a full nude once and I'll never go again. It was a bunch of lurker guys drinking water. Creepy.
Post by blueskiessmiling on Apr 14, 2016 8:47:25 GMT -5
Anecdote: When I was 16, this guy messaged me on MySpace asking me if I wanted a job in his "restaurant" just, you know, "serving drinks and that kind of thing ". Long story short, it was a strip club. And I was SIXTEEN! .....No, I didn't take the job.
I don't like how Netflix is organized. They need a creative director (i.e. me) and I will organized the shit out of that.
Right now it's like they just plop in whatever movie. I wish it was visually presented more like blockbuster was where you have new releases aka actual new releases not a 10 yr old movie Netflix just received the contract to show. Then a sub header of comedy only, drama only, horror etc.
I didn't like amy schumer until I watched her movie. Have you seen trainwreck?
I have never seen it and really have no desire to. I don't think how someone acts in one movie is really going to change my opinion on her. Her career is so much more than just that movie, and overall I just do not get it.
I wish you would watch it. I had the same reaction you do and this movie is soooo funny.
I don't like how Netflix is organized. They need a creative director (i.e. me) and I will organized the shit out of that.
Right now it's like they just plop in whatever movie. I wish it was visually presented more like blockbuster was where you have new releases aka actual new releases not a 10 yr old movie Netflix just received the contract to show. Then a sub header of comedy only, drama only, horror etc.
They do the comedy, horror, British films etc. But I agree it's all over the place.
For a company as large and profitable as they are it could be so much better visually. It just looks lazy to me which coming from a design perspective bugs me.
Perhaps a J15 movie night? I'm not sure I could get H to watch it with me, lol.
Yes! I'm down whenever you want to watch it!
I thought the first half of it was decent, but the second half was so slow IMO. I do like her stand up though. The dirtier and more inappropriate, the better.
I hate people throwing out "uneducated" at others. I find it so degrading and offensive. It's up there right beside "see you next Tuesday" for me.
There is an appropriate time and place for this one to be thrown out. But some of the smartest people i know have high school educations and some of the stupidest assholes i know have advanced ivy leage degress so yeah, assuming someone isnt as formally educated as you are and, therefore, they are just wrong is mostly a pretentious dick move.
If porn is cheating then we both cheat on each other. We both use it alone, him more often then me, but never together for some reason. DH hates strip clubs so that's a non issue in our house.
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