S only had 3 wake ups at night instead of her typical 4-5. I should feel rested and maybe I will once the coffee kicks in.
I've been dealing pretty well with the lack of sleep, but MH is not, even though he only does one night feeding. It's hard to have sympathy because he's getting a lot more than I am.
Same here! I think I've just adjusted to functioning on very little sleep. But DH is always complaining about how tired he is. Yes, he does work 12 hour days all week long and that's why I don't expect him to help out during the week with MOTN feeds, but come on dude you get 5 nights of at least 8 hours of sleep! I can only dream of that happening!
They say women need more sleep, but I am starting to think that study must not be true. I'm pretty sure MH has taken a nap every day he's been off this past week. It drives me crazy. How tired can you be - you get at least 7 hours of sleep every night!?
Post by sweetieheart32 on Mar 12, 2017 12:32:06 GMT -5
Good luck today crazycatlady6! I think all my nesting instinct is kicking in this morning since I physically was unable to do anything in the third tri. The build up of dust on the baseboards and bookshelves is suddenly getting on my nerves! Good thing since ILs are visiting next week.
Post by shawnabm1320 on Mar 12, 2017 12:33:38 GMT -5
flyinghorses6, I'm glad you used the word chaos to describe things. I think I need to remember that this stage is going to be rough, and that it doesn't need to be/can't be pretty, and that's ok. Thanks for the reminder, and I'm sorry you end up being solo for so much of the day.
Post by littleredfish on Mar 12, 2017 12:51:20 GMT -5
DS had a super mild fussy period last night from about 9:30 to bedtime then woke up once last night. Once. 10:45 bedtime, 4am wake up, 7:30 wake up for the day. I am a whole new woman right now. Making the family a big breakfast pancakes, bacon, eggs, the whole spread. This may not happen again for a while but I will take it as a win for my sanity.
Post by flyinghorses6 on Mar 12, 2017 14:02:33 GMT -5
monicageller he works 7 days a week most of the year. It varies by season, but his hours are all over the place. Like today he was gone before the kids got up. Home 11:30-2; and now he's gone again until after bed time. He's doing the best he can to help but it is different every day. His schedule is why I work nights. The only consistent time he can be home is 11-7. So that's my shift. Thank god I'm going back part time.
shawnabm1320 it's ok being alone. I just do the best I can, and we love when daddy is home for awake hours! April and May are his slow months so it will be great to have time together then.
We went out for lunch today with both kids. It was quick but it was nice to be out of the house. R is losing her hair already bring on the crazy scientist look.
I'm rearranging baby stuff in my house. The pack n play is now in my living room and we already used the changing table part of it lol! L is napping in the bouncer and the dog is losing her shit because she's up so high. And I'm researching places we can go if we lose power Tuesday. Fun times!
Post by shawnabm1320 on Mar 12, 2017 15:15:53 GMT -5
The IL's are here. DS threw up on the way to church and of course this is their response: "well he must have carsickness. (SIL) got carsick all the time."
The worst part about people visiting is I need to feed her and they're still holding her. I just started leaking because my boobs are ready to explode 😐
Post by musicallyinclined on Mar 12, 2017 15:18:57 GMT -5
Just had lunch with my sister and 1 year old nephew with my boys. DS2 had an EPIC blowout. My two year old lost his shit over a singular dropped strawberry and my nephew happy screamed the whole time. We were clearly everyone's favorite table. Ha. It may be a while be for we try that again
Same here! I think I've just adjusted to functioning on very little sleep. But DH is always complaining about how tired he is. Yes, he does work 12 hour days all week long and that's why I don't expect him to help out during the week with MOTN feeds, but come on dude you get 5 nights of at least 8 hours of sleep! I can only dream of that happening!
They say women need more sleep, but I am starting to think that study must not be true. I'm pretty sure MH has taken a nap every day he's been off this past week. It drives me crazy. How tired can you be - you get at least 7 hours of sleep every night!?
MH is taking a nap right now. He also gets about 7 hours uninterrupted sleep each night. Hate to tell you, buddy, but you're going to get a lot less when I need to go back to work...
Post by flyinghorses6 on Mar 12, 2017 16:36:20 GMT -5
staz I'm worried about losing power Tuesday as well. And not being able to get anywhere. We are in the 10-14 inch range for snow prediction. Hopefully we will be fine.
DH is taking his 6 week paternity leave in two parts. The first part is officially over and he goes back to work tomorrow. He'll take the second part right before I go back.
I'm super sad about it. This past month has been so special. It's been the best time of my life. I don't want it to end. I'm gunna miss him around here and am very stressed about caring for E all day, every day by myself.
Definitely open to tips on how to handle everything on your own when you feel like you need six hands...
I'm sorry his leave his over loves2shop4shoes. You're going to rock this though. My best advice is to put your own oxygen mask on first. Plan out a few safe places you can leave baby so you can pee, eat, step back and count to 10, whatever. It's okay if she fusses because you set her in the pnp so you could pee. You will be better equipped to soothe her if your needs are met. Give yourself some grace these first days. If all you do is get dressed and watch tv, that's okay!
That said, maybe tomorrow would be a good day to take her on an outing, even to drive thru sbux. Maybe she'll take a nap and you'll get a chance to not be touched and get out of the house. (Unless the snow is headed your way? I can't keep track of this weather.)
Post by musicallyinclined on Mar 12, 2017 18:09:07 GMT -5
loves2shop4shoes, ditto to what shellbell said. Having a space you can put E and know she's safe when you need a minute is a great thing to have. And knowing that you might have to let her fuss for a minute when you need to take care of you and it's ok.
And if you babywear it can make things easier when you need to make a sandwich or just walk around for a bit etc.
Last but if advice is to be patient with yourself if you're feeling frustrated or exhausted or whatever.
Post by oldbaylover1024 on Mar 12, 2017 18:46:39 GMT -5
Another day of visitors, and I'm exhausted. My parents and aunt came over today, which was nice, but damn I'm tired.
I'm still not feeling 100% so entertaining was a challenge. I think I'm dealing with a hormone issue, like I'm out of balance or something. My boobs feel off, I'm tired, achy... Definately not convinced it's mastitis. Come on, body, get it together. My 6 week follow-up is in two weeks and I'm ready to get some questions answered about my body and all this crap I've been dealing with.
MH scheduled his vasectomy. Bring on the comments, family peanut gallery! I'm prepared to tell you to shove it where the sun don't shine!
We're supposed to get 12"-16" of snow from Monday to Tuesday (or Wednesday, I'm not sure). But I am not thrilled about it. Especially being snowed in with a newborn and a crazy preschooler. Ugh.
loves2shop4shoes - I'll +1 the comments about a safe place for E. Being able to put her down for 10 minutes while you shower or walk away is so important. It gives peace of mind and a little freedom for you when you need it. I spent a lot of time in my pjs on the couch with J, and didn't feel guilty about it. Do what you can and take your time.
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Also loves2shop4shoes I plan what I need to do before DH leaves for work. For me, it's absolutely vital that I shower ever day. So I do that, pump, and eat breakfast before he leaves for work. Sometimes I have time to start laundry or do another little chore. It helps me start out feeling like I've got it together.
I'm sorry you're not feeling well oldbaylover1024. Do you think it's worth a call to your OB sooner?
Post by oldbaylover1024 on Mar 12, 2017 19:08:16 GMT -5
shellbell - It's weird. I didn't have a fever according to two thermometers in our house, my boobs aren't showing signs of mastitis, my stomach is acting normal... I just feel off. I think it's hormones balancing out. I've had a recent horrible psoriasis outbreak and some additional moodiness. IDK... If I still feel like this by Thursday I may call. It's just weird. Weird weird weird.
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Post by sweetieheart32 on Mar 12, 2017 19:28:43 GMT -5
Sorry to hear your hormones are out of whack oldbaylover1024. It sucks to feel out of balance when you have so much to deal with already! My uncle and aunt came over this evening, so I'm taking full advantage and putting away laundry and washing dishes while they coo over the baby. I never thought I'd be so excited to do chores.
Post by allisong87 on Mar 12, 2017 21:18:21 GMT -5
How are you guys getting such great sleep stretches with your LOs?! N will sleep in his bassinet for about an hour at a time. He still only prefers sleeping on me and even then it's only for like 2 hours or so.
loves2shop4shoes Yes! I just wore L all through dinner in the k'tan. This only works up to a certain size though. I also wore DS1 in in the Tula whenever we flew. Good for keeping them contained lol.
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