Post by dancerspose on May 23, 2017 8:45:06 GMT -5
**grad warning***
I have not been able to keep up with all the options being presented for where to go, but please know that I love you ladies and will find you and stalk you wherever you go.
Not to mention, we're hopefully not OAD so I may be back someday...
your name was listed as admin nomination. That's where I'm getting confused. Admin vs mod. What's the difference if there's a bazillion admin. Will mods be no more? Iz confused
So 5 admins to provide equal representation for major decisions. Then it looks like there will be mods as well. I actually requested to be a candidate for the BMB/other boards. I'm currently the Mental Wellness mod here and I don't want their needs to go unheard because they are outnumbered by BMBs.
If Sterling's board gets updated with appropriate boards and/or a 3rd forum is created AND some fair choices for admins are made, I will go there. I doubt I am staying here, simply due to lack of posters, and I don't want to go to McB's board, regardless of whether admin power is transferred.
But I do find myself needing a community, so I hope something is worked out that benefits as many of us as possible sometime in the next week.
If Sterling's board gets updated with appropriate boards and/or a 3rd forum is created AND some fair choices for admins are made, I will go there. I doubt I am staying here, simply due to lack of posters, and I don't want to go to McB's board, regardless of whether admin power is transferred.
But I do find myself needing a community, so I hope something is worked out that benefits as many of us as possible sometime in the next week.
That is why they are having the voting set up so only 1 person can win for each "area". So one for loss and one for IF will for sure win. And only 1 parenting, etc.
Engaged May 2003 Married June 2005 TTC #1 since October 2014 H-1% morph, low motility, low count Me-.1 AMH levels, low AFC, DOR/POI, perimenopause Foster Care journey begins March 2016-licensed 11/7/16 Foster parents to A & J 1/31/17 www.fertilityfriend.com/home/5525ef
If Sterling's board gets updated with appropriate boards and/or a 3rd forum is created AND some fair choices for admins are made, I will go there. I doubt I am staying here, simply due to lack of posters, and I don't want to go to McB's board, regardless of whether admin power is transferred.
But I do find myself needing a community, so I hope something is worked out that benefits as many of us as possible sometime in the next week.
+1 to the bolded.
I'm still new but I like you guys and I don't really think I should vote since I don't know you peeps as well as I would like. I hope you guys get situated in a good spot for all of you. And hopefully I'll find everyone!
If Sterling's board gets updated with appropriate boards and/or a 3rd forum is created AND some fair choices for admins are made, I will go there. I doubt I am staying here, simply due to lack of posters, and I don't want to go to McB's board, regardless of whether admin power is transferred.
But I do find myself needing a community, so I hope something is worked out that benefits as many of us as possible sometime in the next week.
That is why they are having the voting set up so only 1 person can win for each "area". So one for loss and one for IF will for sure win. And only 1 parenting, etc.
If Sterling's board gets updated with appropriate boards and/or a 3rd forum is created AND some fair choices for admins are made, I will go there. I doubt I am staying here, simply due to lack of posters, and I don't want to go to McB's board, regardless of whether admin power is transferred.
But I do find myself needing a community, so I hope something is worked out that benefits as many of us as possible sometime in the next week.
Yasssss. I hate what a difficult position this whole TCF meltdown puts our board in. None of us deserves to have our needs not met or get left behind if we don't want to. It's just hard and sad.
I'm thinking of ya, ironbaby I hope you get community that you need.
I kind of want to change my username, so if we leave, that fresh start will be a bonus.
I plan to change my SN if/when we move, too.
I dropped the numbers off of my name on every place I created a profile at (which was all of them...). Like ironbaby, I need a community somewhere, but will leave my lights on here for as long as there is a space.
I put go with the flow. I have 2 BMBs on different forums and then there is the forum where some of the IF boards went. I hope whatever is decided is one central forum because I can't keep up with so many different forums.
BFP #1 December 2012 - MMC January 2013, D&C February 2013 BFP #2 October 2014 - DD arrived July 16, 2015 BFP #3 July 2016 - MC @ 9 weeks August 2016 BFP #4 Due January 2, 2018 - Please stick baby!
******, the way that it seemed to me was like they wanted representatives of different parts of TCF, from parenting and GKU and AL and IF, to have a lead admin so that the next steps can be decided upon. Admin right now just sounds like a committee to talk about what should happen.
Married 10 years. DX: AMA, DOR, endo, one tube, +NK, homozygous MTHFR C677T, and abnormal endometrial function test. MFI with high DNA fragmentation and pericentric inversion on chromosome 9.
I will have more time tomorrow but I wanted to also just briefly say:
Can we just agree to stay here until a path forward or a different path emerges? We can't lose track of anyone if we all just kind of sit tight and be patient and keep our lines of communication open.
And also: does everyone have an IF buddy? Someone who will bat signal them and be their fire drill partner in case of emergency? Do we need to make a buddy list?
Married 10 years. DX: AMA, DOR, endo, one tube, +NK, homozygous MTHFR C677T, and abnormal endometrial function test. MFI with high DNA fragmentation and pericentric inversion on chromosome 9.
****** , the way that it seemed to me was like they wanted representatives of different parts of TCF, from parenting and GKU and AL and IF, to have a lead admin so that the next steps can be decided upon. Admin right now just sounds like a committee to talk about what should happen.
That's how I'm taking it as well. I go where ever everyone else goes but I want to make sure IF and smaller boards get their voices heard.
Engaged May 2003 Married June 2005 TTC #1 since October 2014 H-1% morph, low motility, low count Me-.1 AMH levels, low AFC, DOR/POI, perimenopause Foster Care journey begins March 2016-licensed 11/7/16 Foster parents to A & J 1/31/17 www.fertilityfriend.com/home/5525ef
Jan '13: TI w/letrozole, BFP, DS born Oct '13 Dec '15: IUI#1, BFN Jan '16: Cancelled IUI (too many follicles) Feb '16: IUI#2, BFP, DS2 stillborn June'16 @22 weeks We love you baby boy! Aug '16: D&C for retained placenta Oct '16: Removal of interuterine adhesions Jan '17: IUI#3 No ovulation?!? Feb '17: IUI#4, BFN IVF sometime this summer
Sounds like a number of us need buddies! I can take point on organizing contacts, if you guys want. Having been a Girl Scout camp counselor for many many years, I'm pretty experienced in making sure everyone has a buddy 😉
Sounds like a number of us need buddies! I can take point on organizing contacts, if you guys want. Having been a Girl Scout camp counselor for many many years, I'm pretty experienced in making sure everyone has a buddy 😉
I was gonna say, I'd be happy to scan this thread again and tag errbody who wants to be tagged. But you sound like the woman for the job!
Married 10 years. DX: AMA, DOR, endo, one tube, +NK, homozygous MTHFR C677T, and abnormal endometrial function test. MFI with high DNA fragmentation and pericentric inversion on chromosome 9.
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