Cuddled my baby for the last time tonight. Tomorrow he will be a toddler. So bittersweet.
Don't say that! They're still babies!
I know. And I am looking forward to him becoming more interactive. I guess it's a good thing I'll be able to cuddle and enjoy a newborn soon without all the sleep deprivation and PP issues.
I know Larry happened. Please do not try to convince me otherwise. Please don't talk to me about coffee. I don't drink it. I don't caffeine. When I state my opinion, that is me chiming in on a topic. This is not me saying you suck at life if you do or feel differently. If I want to say that, I will. If I want to speak on you, I will.
Parenting is trashing becole over on APTM. They're pissed because we were talking about them on the WTF thread.
I think it was only one or two people and the rest of us were like what happened?
I agree it was only a few people but I also was trying to catch up this morning and figure out what is going on and why I was tagged and I'm still unsure what I did to you to make you say what you did about me? I am trying hard to understand perspective here but I am not sure what I said/ did that was wrong?
I am naturally snarky and I say most things with sarcasm and humor. I know that's hard to read but I thought you "liked" and agreed with things I said on the old parenting board so I was a bit taken aback when you said something about me over on APTM.
I think it was only one or two people and the rest of us were like what happened?
I agree it was only a few people but I also was trying to catch up this morning and figure out what is going on and why I was tagged and I'm still unsure what I did to you to make you say what you did about me? I am trying hard to understand perspective here but I am not sure what I said/ did that was wrong?
I am naturally snarky and I say most things with sarcasm and humor. I know that's hard to read but I thought you "liked" and agreed with things I said on the old parenting board so I was a bit taken aback when you said something about me over on APTM.
You didn't do anything to me. I didn't say anything about you until last night. I said you "were not nice those days following and seemed to relish." That's how I felt. I do feel I brought that up here with you at that time.
You were very reactionary those days following the initial exodus, in my opinion.
I did like and agree with some things you said. What I said was in regard to your g-mod status. I never said anything about you as a person.
I know Larry happened. Please do not try to convince me otherwise. Please don't talk to me about coffee. I don't drink it. I don't caffeine. When I state my opinion, that is me chiming in on a topic. This is not me saying you suck at life if you do or feel differently. If I want to say that, I will. If I want to speak on you, I will.
I don't know you, so I'm at like a 1 over this. But it's kinda weird to me that people keep saying things about me over there and then surprised when I'm over here laughing at the drama or explaining why I don't think we should move over to the other place. You told me in the WTF thread that it was because people were talking over here.
I agree it was only a few people but I also was trying to catch up this morning and figure out what is going on and why I was tagged and I'm still unsure what I did to you to make you say what you did about me? I am trying hard to understand perspective here but I am not sure what I said/ did that was wrong?
I am naturally snarky and I say most things with sarcasm and humor. I know that's hard to read but I thought you "liked" and agreed with things I said on the old parenting board so I was a bit taken aback when you said something about me over on APTM.
You didn't do anything to me. I didn't say anything about you until last night. I said you "were not nice those days following and seemed to relish." That's how I felt. I do feel I brought that up here with you at that time.
You were very reactionary those days following the initial exodus, in my opinion.
I did like and agree with some things you said. What I said was in regard to your g-mod status. I never said anything about you as a person.
Well I would post the screen shot of the pm where I was "congrats, you'be been promoted to gmod" but I know that's not cool to post pms. I know people felt like I was just trying to be some head bitch or whatever. I saw it as no one was left here except for a few small groups. I was barely ever needed to do anything as mod. I could care less about gmod. Seemed to me like just some box that was checked. I had no idea it would get the reaction it did. It made sense to me that there would need to be a mod on "life uncensored" if people were staying here and posting. Many of us saw the opportunity to meet some new people and kinda stake a flag in the ground to say "hey we're still here, come play with us if you're staying too." I had no idea it would be seen as hbic or cause so much flack to me.
I think becole got shit on basically just for being a responsible trustworthy person/poster. I think if people went back and read those threads now that the emotions have simmered down, they would see her in a different light. The way APTM people were portraying her and that situation was so far from how she really is.
I don't know you, so I'm at like a 1 over this. But it's kinda weird to me that people keep saying things about me over there and then surprised when I'm over here laughing at the drama or explaining why I don't think we should move over to the other place. You told me in the WTF thread that it was because people were talking over here.
I know Larry happened. Please do not try to convince me otherwise. Please don't talk to me about coffee. I don't drink it. I don't caffeine. When I state my opinion, that is me chiming in on a topic. This is not me saying you suck at life if you do or feel differently. If I want to say that, I will. If I want to speak on you, I will.
I think becole got shit on basically just for being a responsible trustworthy person/poster. I think if people went back and read those threads now that the emotions have simmered down, they would see her in a different light. The way APTM people were portraying her and that situation was so far from how she really is.
I am going to say this for the last time, it was not people trashing her or portraying her any way. It was a persons at best. I wish you would make this clear.
Or when you talk about this can you bring up that PEOPLE defended her, stood up for her, or questioned what was being posted.
You post this over here like she was dragged through the mud.
I know Larry happened. Please do not try to convince me otherwise. Please don't talk to me about coffee. I don't drink it. I don't caffeine. When I state my opinion, that is me chiming in on a topic. This is not me saying you suck at life if you do or feel differently. If I want to say that, I will. If I want to speak on you, I will.
You didn't do anything to me. I didn't say anything about you until last night. I said you "were not nice those days following and seemed to relish." That's how I felt. I do feel I brought that up here with you at that time.
You were very reactionary those days following the initial exodus, in my opinion.
I did like and agree with some things you said. What I said was in regard to your g-mod status. I never said anything about you as a person.
Well I would post the screen shot of the pm where I was "congrats, you'be been promoted to gmod" but I know that's not cool to post pms. I know people felt like I was just trying to be some head bitch or whatever. I saw it as no one was left here except for a few small groups. I was barely ever needed to do anything as mod. I could care less about gmod. Seemed to me like just some box that was checked. I had no idea it would get the reaction it did. It made sense to me that there would need to be a mod on "life uncensored" if people were staying here and posting. Many of us saw the opportunity to meet some new people and kinda stake a flag in the ground to say "hey we're still here, come play with us if you're staying too." I had no idea it would be seen as hbic or cause so much flack to me.
You don't have to explain yourself to me. I found you very on 10 that initial day on the old Parenting board. We talked about this. You were "why are you here?" Anyway, those threads have been moved and it's not that serious. I just don't feel anything I posted last night is not something that we didn't talk about.
I know Larry happened. Please do not try to convince me otherwise. Please don't talk to me about coffee. I don't drink it. I don't caffeine. When I state my opinion, that is me chiming in on a topic. This is not me saying you suck at life if you do or feel differently. If I want to say that, I will. If I want to speak on you, I will.
Thank you JoBub. I think feeling misunderstood is one of the downfalls of the internet. I don't anticipate any re reading of threads since they did not appear to be fully read and comprehended the first time. I was laughing at an entire situation of drama, which made me a target. I wasn't doing it alone and I thought that because I did not specifically speak about any one person in particular that it wouldn't have been taken so seriously or negatively. On the other hand, I was spoken about negatively by name before, during, and after the gmod stuff even occurred. Multiple threads in multiple places speaking specifically my screenname. Or not my actual screenname, depending on reading comprehension and autocorrect. That part was kinda funny though.
The irony was not lost on me that the timeline was:
People talking about me on APTM Me saying - no I don't want to go over there, they've been saying icky things that make me uncomfortable. Response: more people talking about me talking about them
I think becole got shit on basically just for being a responsible trustworthy person/poster. I think if people went back and read those threads now that the emotions have simmered down, they would see her in a different light. The way APTM people were portraying her and that situation was so far from how she really is.
I am going to say this for the last time, it was not people trashing her or portraying her any way. It was a persons at best. I wish you would make this clear.
Or when you talk about this can you bring up that PEOPLE defended her, stood up for her, or questioned what was being posted.
You post this over here like she was dragged through the mud.
I disagree. I was dragged through the mud for about 10 pages of one thread. Multiple people said things about me.
Well I would post the screen shot of the pm where I was "congrats, you'be been promoted to gmod" but I know that's not cool to post pms. I know people felt like I was just trying to be some head bitch or whatever. I saw it as no one was left here except for a few small groups. I was barely ever needed to do anything as mod. I could care less about gmod. Seemed to me like just some box that was checked. I had no idea it would get the reaction it did. It made sense to me that there would need to be a mod on "life uncensored" if people were staying here and posting. Many of us saw the opportunity to meet some new people and kinda stake a flag in the ground to say "hey we're still here, come play with us if you're staying too." I had no idea it would be seen as hbic or cause so much flack to me.
You don't have to explain yourself to me. I found you very on 10 that initial day on the old Parenting board. We talked about this. You were "why are you here?" Anyway, those threads have been moved and it's not that serious. I just don't feel anything I posted last night is not something that we didn't talk about.
I am not that person to just trash someone.
I know you don't care for me to respond but i will say I was definitely not at a 10. I was at a laughing 5. My 10 is... not a good look...
I agree that becole was not at 10. We were just having fun and trying to round up the people left. I don't think she needs to continue to defend herself because it doesn't matter. There are a lot of good posters over on APTM, McBenny included, but there are some really rude and hostile ones as well. We don't have that on M14. We aren't all Kumbaya all of the time but no matter what we are always respectful. Majority of us won't go to APTM and my opinion stemmed from the way they talked about becole. Before then, I didn't really care because I stay on my BMB for the most part. Now I really don't want to be associated with that site because of the posters who were so hateful. And it wasn't just one comment made, it was pages of her being called some nasty things. Although some people defended her, the words were still there and it had to be hurtful.
I think becole got shit on basically just for being a responsible trustworthy person/poster. I think if people went back and read those threads now that the emotions have simmered down, they would see her in a different light. The way APTM people were portraying her and that situation was so far from how she really is.
I am going to say this for the last time, it was not people trashing her or portraying her any way. It was a persons at best. I wish you would make this clear.
Or when you talk about this can you bring up that PEOPLE defended her, stood up for her, or questioned what was being posted.
You post this over here like she was dragged through the mud.
No. I'm entirely too lazy to include a head count of the number of people saying positive or negative things each time I talk about this. I get what your saying, but I don't think anyone is going to read my post and assume that every single APTM poster talked shit about becole. But there was more than one person who did. And sure, maybe there were some people defended her. I only briefly lurked over there and my memory is terrible so I have no idea.
However I would like to tell you, McBenny that I think during that time you had a good grasp on both (all?) sides of the situation and I appreciated your level-headed remarks about it. I agreed with a lot of what you said in the threads where it was discussed, and I admire your ability not to say what you think without necessarily taking sides.
I am going to say this for the last time, it was not people trashing her or portraying her any way. It was a persons at best. I wish you would make this clear.
Or when you talk about this can you bring up that PEOPLE defended her, stood up for her, or questioned what was being posted.
You post this over here like she was dragged through the mud.
No. I'm entirely too lazy to include a head count of the number of people saying positive or negative things each time I talk about this. I get what your saying, but I don't think anyone is going to read my post and assume that every single APTM poster talked shit about becole. But there was more than one person who did. And sure, maybe there were some people defended her. I only briefly lurked over there and my memory is terrible so I have no idea.
However I would like to tell you, McBenny that I think during that time you had a good grasp on both (all?) sides of the situation and I appreciated your level-headed remarks about it. I agreed with a lot of what you said in the threads where it was discussed, and I admire your ability not to say what you think without necessarily taking sides.
100% agreed that I appreciate McBenny staying level headed and not throwing shade. And many others that did not throw shade. And the people that defended me. All accurate. All appreciated before we peace out from TCF for good.
I am going to say this for the last time, it was not people trashing her or portraying her any way. It was a persons at best. I wish you would make this clear.
Or when you talk about this can you bring up that PEOPLE defended her, stood up for her, or questioned what was being posted.
You post this over here like she was dragged through the mud.
I disagree. I was dragged through the mud for about 10 pages of one thread. Multiple people said things about me.
Could you please direct me to this because I didn't see it and I did a whole search of "becole."
I know Larry happened. Please do not try to convince me otherwise. Please don't talk to me about coffee. I don't drink it. I don't caffeine. When I state my opinion, that is me chiming in on a topic. This is not me saying you suck at life if you do or feel differently. If I want to say that, I will. If I want to speak on you, I will.
No. I'm entirely too lazy to include a head count of the number of people saying positive or negative things each time I talk about this. I get what your saying, but I don't think anyone is going to read my post and assume that every single APTM poster talked shit about becole. But there was more than one person who did. And sure, maybe there were some people defended her. I only briefly lurked over there and my memory is terrible so I have no idea.
However I would like to tell you, McBenny that I think during that time you had a good grasp on both (all?) sides of the situation and I appreciated your level-headed remarks about it. I agreed with a lot of what you said in the threads where it was discussed, and I admire your ability not to say what you think without necessarily taking sides.
100% agreed that I appreciate McBenny staying level headed and not throwing shade. And many others that did not throw shade. And the people that defended me. All accurate. All appreciated before we peace out from TCF for good.
I am all for throwing shade if it is to a shady bitch. I do not see that with you?
I know Larry happened. Please do not try to convince me otherwise. Please don't talk to me about coffee. I don't drink it. I don't caffeine. When I state my opinion, that is me chiming in on a topic. This is not me saying you suck at life if you do or feel differently. If I want to say that, I will. If I want to speak on you, I will.
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