I volunteered like back in April to teach a business class at a local homeless shelter. Well, I never met with the director and she NEVER contacted me so I assumed they had found someone else. She emailed me today reminding me the class is next week Monday, Tuesday AND Thursday. I have to be out of town most of the week for our first division meeting (big one) since our companies acquisition. I had to ask the lady if she had a back up, and I am thinking they don't. I am screwed I feel HORRIBLE, but I also feel like the director totally dropped the ball! She also left out the part about it being multiple days.... I thought it was one class! Why do I do this to myself.
Don't be too hard on yourself. I've had this kind of thing happen before. Even though it sounds to me like it wasn't your fault, I would go at it as "I'm so sorry we misunderstood each other. Can we reschedule? This cause is really important to me."
I volunteered like back in April to teach a business class at a local homeless shelter. Well, I never met with the director and she NEVER contacted me so I assumed they had found someone else. She emailed me today reminding me the class is next week Monday, Tuesday AND Thursday. I have to be out of town most of the week for our first division meeting (big one) since our companies acquisition. I had to ask the lady if she had a back up, and I am thinking they don't. I am screwed I feel HORRIBLE, but I also feel like the director totally dropped the ball! She also left out the part about it being multiple days.... I thought it was one class! Why do I do this to myself.
Don't be too hard on yourself. I've had this kind of thing happen before. Even though it sounds to me like it wasn't your fault, I would go at it as "I'm so sorry we misunderstood each other. Can we reschedule? This cause is really important to me."
Thanks, unfortunately I don't think it can be rescheduled, it was part of a larger program, I was just going to do a piece of it. Although this is the END of the program, perhaps it could be pushed back. The director is not responding to me now...so this is not helping me
Then don't get butt hurt when people don't trust you. Because they don't, and won't ever.
I tried to explain it to someone in private, but it fell on deaf ears, so it doesn't really matter, does it?
Edit to tag cherrycokehabit since she said something that applies here.
This has nothing to do with what happened on TD. This has nothing to do with your daughter. Basically, by returning to this board and pretending to be someone new, you lied by omission. You shouldn't HAVE to be asked if you were the member previously known as X, you should simply say some shit like, hey guys, it's NO; I fucked up, I miss this community, and I want to be a member. New name is darkstar. Not just simply come back under another alias and never say it's you.
Last Edit: May 29, 2015 14:44:05 GMT -5 by darwinfish
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Post by windwithfingers on May 29, 2015 15:06:17 GMT -5
Hey KayVeeKay, can you tell me how you keep figuring out people's real names to add them on FB? People are a little put off by it. Just putting that out there.
Hey KayVeeKay, can you tell me how you keep figuring out people's real names to add them on FB? People are a little put off by it. Just putting that out there.
Hey KayVeeKay, can you tell me how you keep figuring out people's real names to add them on FB? People are a little put off by it. Just putting that out there.
seriously you just go on about telling someone how they dont trust you and it makes them uncomfortable to be HERE under the guise of anonymity and you think it's cool to start friending people on FB!?! No, Seriously. I cannot with you
Hey KayVeeKay, can you tell me how you keep figuring out people's real names to add them on FB? People are a little put off by it. Just putting that out there.
Hey KayVeeKay, can you tell me how you keep figuring out people's real names to add them on FB? People are a little put off by it. Just putting that out there.
Hey KayVeeKay, can you tell me how you keep figuring out people's real names to add them on FB? People are a little put off by it. Just putting that out there.
The people you may know tool is suggesting them. I'm just adding names I recognized from the group I was in. I don't actually know who is whom (ETA:) on here.
Hey KayVeeKay, can you tell me how you keep figuring out people's real names to add them on FB? People are a little put off by it. Just putting that out there.
The people you may know tool is suggesting them. I'm just adding names I recognized from the group I was in. I don't actually know who is whom (ETA:) on here.
Hey KayVeeKay, can you tell me how you keep figuring out people's real names to add them on FB? People are a little put off by it. Just putting that out there.
The people you may know tool is suggesting them. I'm just adding names I recognized from the group I was in. I don't actually know who is whom (ETA:) on here.
Ummmm that's really fuckin creepy and shady imo. That's basically the same as fb saying you have 1 mutual friend you're going to request them as a friend. Nev and Max are gonna be knocking on somebody's door. Slow ya roll home girl, you're adding fuel to your own fire.
--keep in mind this is from a neutral person who is NOT fb friends with any O14ers and doesn't know your full backstory or what originally happened.
The people you may know tool is suggesting them. I'm just adding names I recognized from the group I was in. I don't actually know who is whom (ETA:) on here.
Ummmm that's really fuckin creepy and shady imo. That's basically the same as fb saying you have 1 mutual friend you're going to request them as a friend. Nev and Max are gonna be knocking on somebody's door. Slow ya roll home girl, you're adding fuel to your own fire.
--keep in mind this is from a neutral person who is NOT fb friends with any O14ers and doesn't know your full backstory or what originally happened.
It's actually unrelated to the board but fine.
In other news I'm done with work. Have a nice weekend, folks.
Went to an all town yard sale today. Found a few items. A couple sales freaked me out at the mass quantities of baby clothing....that's going to be me in the future, how many clothes does 1 lil boy need?? Give me all the baby clothes!
Bonus was the town was about 30-40min away. LO napped on the drive there and back. He was also a unicorn at all the stops.
Went to an all town yard sale today. Found a few items. A couple sales freaked me out at the mass quantities of baby clothing....that's going to be me in the future, how many clothes does 1 lil boy need?? Give me all the baby clothes!
Bonus was the town was about 30-40min away. LO napped on the drive there and back. He was also a unicorn at all the stops.
I love baby clothes. Until laundry day. I hate folding all those tiny things!
Ummmm that's really fuckin creepy and shady imo. That's basically the same as fb saying you have 1 mutual friend you're going to request them as a friend. Nev and Max are gonna be knocking on somebody's door. Slow ya roll home girl, you're adding fuel to your own fire.
--keep in mind this is from a neutral person who is NOT fb friends with any O14ers and doesn't know your full backstory or what originally happened.
It's actually unrelated to the board but fine.
In other news I'm done with work. Have a nice weekend, folks.
You really do seem to act like a victim 24/7. Nobody is even being mean. Hell, KMW wasn't even an original O14-er. She just said that after all of this shit in the past 24 hours, it is creepy to start friending people on facebook.
In other news I'm done with work. Have a nice weekend, folks.
You really do seem to act like a victim 24/7. Nobody is even being mean. Hell, KMW wasn't even an original O14-er. She just said that after all of this shit in the past 24 hours, it is creepy to start friending people on facebook.
Dude, I've been friend requesting people for months. Hence, unrelated.
You really do seem to act like a victim 24/7. Nobody is even being mean. Hell, KMW wasn't even an original O14-er. She just said that after all of this shit in the past 24 hours, it is creepy to start friending people on facebook.
Dude, I've been friend requesting people for months. Hence, unrelated.
And it's been creeping people out for months. So please stop
I think the problem most people are having, has nothing to do with your family problems and your ppd. It's the fact that you flipped out on yourself using another AE, lied about it, got banned, then created a whole new persona. We have asked you about it before, you denied it, you were confronted about it yesterday and you told us that you didn't understand our inside jokes because "you weren't around when we were pregnant" (lie).
Don't blame any of this on what happened with your daughter. This is 100% about how you have behaved on this board.
Post by Jennifer18131 on May 29, 2015 18:45:00 GMT -5
H snapped at me for no fucking reason. It was pointless to fight so I just ignore it and him and kept picking up around the house and looking after DS. He apparently got tired of my child shoulder so he came to me with this "I'm sorry, but..." spiel, which led to a fight. He tried calling my bluff with "Do you just want me to take him and leave for the night?" I didn't blink or slip a beat, just said yup.
Of course h changed his tune and legitimately apologized. But he's at dinner with friends with DS. I have picked up clean laundry, started a new load, cleaned the kitchen, and opened a bottle of wine.
H snapped at me for no fucking reason. It was pointless to fight so I just ignore it and him and kept picking up around the house and looking after DS. He apparently got tired of my child shoulder so he came to me with this "I'm sorry, but..." spiel, which led to a fight. He tried calling my bluff with "Do you just want me to take him and leave for the night?" I didn't blink or slip a beat, just said yup.
Of course h changed his tune and legitimately apologized. But he's at dinner with friends with DS. I have picked up clean laundry, started a new load, cleaned the kitchen, and opened a bottle of wine.
H snapped at me for no fucking reason. It was pointless to fight so I just ignore it and him and kept picking up around the house and looking after DS. He apparently got tired of my child shoulder so he came to me with this "I'm sorry, but..." spiel, which led to a fight. He tried calling my bluff with "Do you just want me to take him and leave for the night?" I didn't blink or slip a beat, just said yup.
Of course h changed his tune and legitimately apologized. But he's at dinner with friends with DS. I have picked up clean laundry, started a new load, cleaned the kitchen, and opened a bottle of wine.
So, I'm all yours this evening ?
I hate when that shit happens. I'm sorry dude.
Sorry? I'm alone on a Friday watching baseball with a bottle of wine.
An update from earlier post: I resigned today and my boss was actually a human about it. She's usually a robot! An added bonus was making the "mean girls" at work wonder what my meeting with my boss was about. And then realizing they were left out of the loop as other co workers knew about it. I feel so much better! I'll remain full time until end of the month then in July I'll go pool (working as much or as little as I want).
H snapped at me for no fucking reason. It was pointless to fight so I just ignore it and him and kept picking up around the house and looking after DS. He apparently got tired of my child shoulder so he came to me with this "I'm sorry, but..." spiel, which led to a fight. He tried calling my bluff with "Do you just want me to take him and leave for the night?" I didn't blink or slip a beat, just said yup.
Of course h changed his tune and legitimately apologized. But he's at dinner with friends with DS. I have picked up clean laundry, started a new load, cleaned the kitchen, and opened a bottle of wine.
So, I'm all yours this evening ?
Hate when they do that shit but glad it really apologized and that you have an evening by yourself!
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