Monday Randoms
Jun 15, 2015 10:22:11 GMT -5
Post by darwinfish on Jun 15, 2015 10:22:11 GMT -5
If daycare is closed tomorrow and I can make it to work, he will have to stay home with DS. So he will have him all day. I don't want to sound like I'm dogging on him, because he's a great dad. It's just little things that guys don't think about. Like yesterday we went to my SIL's gender reveal and my H was just walking around talking to people and just left us there. I can never just leave J and walk around and talk to people, he lives in my asshole. I think that dads don't really have the same brain wiring moms do, and they don't quite understand how much we do.
DH is a great dad, and watches S for days while I travel for work, but I did have to write out a feeding schedule for him. Other than that I think he was pretty good on his own. But, when we are both in the room with S, he definitely does not watch him as closely as I do, and he gets easily distracted. When I point that out he says he does it because we are both watching him, and that he's never like that when I am there, but I'm not so sure about that and I always worry a bit when I leave them alone.
When we are out DH likes having the appearance of "dad" and enjoys toting S around and showing him to everyone, but that novelty wears off at some point, or I worry S is bored, and I find myself in apk4's shoes, with baby up my butthole.