So are you cleaning on your company's time, then? Because it's gotta come from somewhere.
Nope, I have the flexibility to work when ever I want and my hours are clocked as I am in a client billable field. I am able to clean my house in 2 hours, while keeping it clean the remainder of the week, and still getting in 48-50+ hours per week. I do start my day at 6 am, and run DD to daycare when she gets up and pick her up at 4:30.
So... When I finally passed out between 12:45 & 1am and DD was up screaming 2:30-3 and again 5:45 but I didn't actually get up because she needed to sleep, that was my priority. Despite my lack of sleep. And your kid isn't home all day to cause messes. Good for you.
Again, you want a trophy? I'm Probing and folding laundry while DD destroys things. But I don't want her to fear a mess or be afraid of being in trouble for making one, I don't want to stifle her curiosity or creative play.
Be the bigger people here, guys. When someone says something that is stupid and dangerous, you should let them know that. It's the right thing to do, even if maybe it's hard because they are your friend.
And you certainly shouldn't like it. That's a fucking endorsement of the stupid, dangerous behaviour. COME ON, now.
I didn't like the post but I will say I didn't exactly know or understand what pelvic rest entailed and why/when it's prescribed. I had no idea of the severity of the risks. Thanks for the enlightenment, parenting.
I mean I agree, but just because I don't reply in the exact same words you did my reply isn't good enough. Sigh...
saying it wasn't smart doesn't grasp the gravity of the situation.
Im sorry, but she's a grown woman who knows the possible consequences of what she's done. I'm sure they explained it to her and she chose to do it anyway.
To clarify, I totally realize that I contradicted myself. I would LOVE to not work, but personally I couldn't not financially contribute if I'm able to. I do realize that everyone doesn't think the same way or prioritize the same way, and that's ok. I think that it would have been more accurate to say I don't understand that choice, it's not really judging. And I think that's ok, we'd all be kidding ourselves if we said we agreed with everyone's life choices. That being said, it's their life not mine.
Glad your little angel isn't a destructor child and your DH must not make any messes, either. Your child must also sleep. Mine likes to fight me. I made dinner, fed the family, bathed DD, did books and stories and milk time, then spent 8-9 making her stay in her crib and fall asleep. That was from 5:30pm to 9. DH cleaned up from dinner and did the cat boxes while I wrestled DD. After 9 I was in tears and exhausted. We are unable to do anything noisy once she's down, she's too light of a sleeper (when she was an infant we were as noisy as possible to try to have that baby who would sleep through a tornado) So we relaxed. And then at 11:30 I had taken my pills and gone potty and done my teeth and was fighting DD to go back to sleep.
Here's your trophy I guess
Thanks for the trophy! My DD is not a destructor IMO, but she gets out every toy she owns every night, and yes we put them all away before bed. DD does not sleep all night, she is usually up twice a night, midnight and 2 usually. She was a preemie and has been a terrible sleeper since birth, however at bed 8pm we do books and she hops in and doesn't get out, so our bedtime routine takes only 15 min. We have always had to get up with her, but getting her down has never been the problem. How old is your DD? Ours was super excited and still is about sleeping in her big girl bed. We converted her crib to a toddler bed and she loves it. Maybe that might help with her evening routine?
Thanks for the suggestion, she's 14 mo and has never slept longer than 3.5 hours straight. She takes one one hour nap a day.
We have clean clothes and clean dishes and good home cooked meals 90% of the time, but there is clutter and stuff she pulls from Closets or boxes, etc while I'm working on other projects. My house is messy. I look back on photos from when she was immobile and sigh. It was so CLEAN then!!
I have a really good FFFC and it's an honest one. I really don't know the details on pelvic rest. I've never researched it (googling as we speak). That might make me really clueless, but it's the truth.
I didn't like the post but I will say I didn't exactly know or understand what pelvic rest entailed and why/when it's prescribed. I had no idea of the severity of the risks. Thanks for the enlightenment, parenting.
Sometimes I like a post because it's a good confession or a good UO without LIKING the content. It's possible that happened
Good argument!
Not an argument just saying maybe the likes weren't because they liked it so much as that's a REAL confession. And I'm betting half the board or more has no real clue what pelvic rest risks are To even call her out. I don't so I kept quiet
Do you find the fact that she risked a uterine rupture and early labor and basically her baby's life something to like? Or just a high five for the sex part?
When we were passing our midway point in pregnancy, a lot of women were making a big deal about reaching viability. Ladies were asking about whether it was safe to do this, or safe to do that, and multiple times the responses were to wait until viability before doing anything that might lead to early labor. ("Is it safe to fly internationally with placenta previa? My doctor won't approve my flight." "I'd wait until viability and then do it if it is really important to you." Yes, because how far along she is determines her and her baby's survival rate when she starts hemorrhaging mid flight. *eye roll*)
I think there are moms here handing out advice who don't understand what viability means. I don't think they understand the baby can still have very little chance of survival, and if by some miracle they do survive, there's a very large chance of life long disabilities. I think a lot of this advice and love titting is because of ignorance. You're right. There should be a discussion about it.
I have a really good FFFC and it's an honest one. I really don't know the details on pelvic rest. I've never researched it (googling as we speak). That might make me really clueless, but it's the truth.
You might be clueless right now...But, you are making a smart decision to look up information. and that means you aren't going to stay clueless.
I know Larry happened. Please do not try to convince me otherwise. Please don't talk to me about coffee. I don't drink it. I don't caffeine. When I state my opinion, that is me chiming in on a topic. This is not me saying you suck at life if you do or feel differently. If I want to say that, I will. If I want to speak on you, I will.
I didn't like the post but I will say I didn't exactly know or understand what pelvic rest entailed and why/when it's prescribed. I had no idea of the severity of the risks. Thanks for the enlightenment, parenting.
I know Larry happened. Please do not try to convince me otherwise. Please don't talk to me about coffee. I don't drink it. I don't caffeine. When I state my opinion, that is me chiming in on a topic. This is not me saying you suck at life if you do or feel differently. If I want to say that, I will. If I want to speak on you, I will.
Maybe people don't live on their phone and just didn't get there yet? Just saying.
But you are one of the people that liked her post!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Are you a nurse cause you should know how dangerous that is for her to do.
Did you not see where I said I did NOT intentionally like the post!!!!!!!!!! (Because you like those) and yep I'm a damn good nurse, saved plenty of lives.
Edited to add: I am not an OB nurse. All nurses don't know everything, so please don't think that. Many nurses have specialities... I am ortho/surgical.
Not an argument just saying maybe the likes weren't because they liked it so much as that's a REAL confession. And I'm betting half the board or more has no real clue what pelvic rest risks are To even call her out. I don't so I kept quiet
I and the baby could die if I started bleeding and it wasn't caught. Yeah, I risked two lives to have short, dissastifying sex I has the dumb
I know Larry happened. Please do not try to convince me otherwise. Please don't talk to me about coffee. I don't drink it. I don't caffeine. When I state my opinion, that is me chiming in on a topic. This is not me saying you suck at life if you do or feel differently. If I want to say that, I will. If I want to speak on you, I will.
Not an argument just saying maybe the likes weren't because they liked it so much as that's a REAL confession. And I'm betting half the board or more has no real clue what pelvic rest risks are To even call her out. I don't so I kept quiet
I and the baby could die if I started bleeding and it wasn't caught. Yeah, I risked two lives to have short, dissastifying sex I has the dumb
WTH is wrong with you? Do you hear how flippant your words sound? Say it out loud if you can't hear yourself in your head. Freaking goodness gracious!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!@#$#@$%!#$
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