Post by abominationsnowman on Jul 18, 2016 9:25:33 GMT -5
Appointments for the oldest two this morning, then housework. Babysitter from 2-4pm. Not sure what I want to do with my time yet. I almost want to go for a bike ride, but that seems drastic.
My DD did this to her two favorite cardboard books. Mostly when she was teething but they books look destroyed and disgusting. And she still loves them and wants us to read them to her daily.
Post by skinandbones on Jul 18, 2016 9:34:58 GMT -5
Fun fact: Streaking was a thing at my college. They were called Dell Runs. And they typically done after a night of heavy drinking. So many people have seen my boobs.
So H has still been doing laundry and leaving it for me to fold. I'm not folding any of it unless I started the laundry. Last night I pulled my work clothes out of the laundry bin and left everything else in it.
I know, real mature.
Don't make me post a pic of my laundry room! A week of consistently doing laundry but not folding any. No one had clean underwear, there are no towels/linens, dish clothes, hand towels etc where they are supposed to be. It's all clean lying in a mound in the laundry room - if you need something you gotta dig to find it. I might get around to it today but it's so overwhelming at this point.
Trying to hide on the other side of the room in this hotel room so baby girl doesn't see me and will go down for her nap. Twins are down at the lake with DH this morning playing with their cousins. Then it's off to the pool after lunch for more cousin time.
Isaac didn't fall asleep until midnight last night. That was fun. I can't decide whether we should try extra hard to stick with the normal nap routine today or skip the afternoon nap altogether. I'm not sure which would result in a more reasonable bedtime tonight. He's 3 1/2 and still naps at home.
Post by skinandbones on Jul 18, 2016 10:02:42 GMT -5
packmomma, I would have a discussion with your H about what a relationship would look like, how to go about it, etc. But ultimately, I think you need to follow your H's lead.
If he isn't interested in a relationship, I think you need to respect that.
Now they are just a sad shell of their former glory.
+1
Now I know why moms want to get implants. Mine look like fried eggs on a door nail.
LOL. I'm laughing at your description of this, not the situation. Truth be told, I'm afraid to even look at my naked body in the mirror. I'm not prepared to assess the damage yet.
packmomma, I would have a discussion with your H about what a relationship would look like, how to go about it, etc. But ultimately, I think you need to follow your H's lead.
If he isn't interested in a relationship, I think you need to respect that.
@betweenthelines, when it got really bad here, I stopped doing h's laundry. I would only do the kids and mine. And when he did his and left it in the dryer I would take out and dump on his side of the bed to free up dryer and laundry basket.
Just as mature.
Meh, that's a necessary life skill learned in college. He should know laundry left unattended is tossed aside I think he's lucky you dumped it on the bed instead of the floor.
Post by RandomName on Jul 18, 2016 11:14:17 GMT -5
packmomma I would have a talking with YH much like skinandbones suggested. Have a ctj style talk. I can understand him being fearful of his mom being in line with his dad. But there's only one way to figure out if that's true. If so, I'm very sorry and truly hope it's not. If it's not, she missed celebrating a big milestone in her grandchilds life. Maybe it might be too much for him to have him at the party but you could try to arrange a meetup on neutral ground with mil with YH approval.
Don't make me post a pic of my laundry room! A week of consistently doing laundry but not folding any. No one had clean underwear, there are no towels/linens, dish clothes, hand towels etc where they are supposed to be. It's all clean lying in a mound in the laundry room - if you need something you gotta dig to find it. I might get around to it today but it's so overwhelming at this point.
This was my couch last week. So much laundry.
+1
When I get really peeved, I fold my things very nicely and then take everything of DH's out of the hamper and hurl it at his dresser. Then for that week he picks out of the pile. It's the small things that bring me satisfaction.
The electrician just left. Our nursery light was malfunctioning but he switched it with the hallway light and it's working now. So at least it was just the light (led) and not the electrical.
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