Post by housecarder on Jul 22, 2016 13:21:04 GMT -5
We had a dry wedding. The venue didn't allow alcohol so we blamed it on that, but really most of our family has alcohol problems. I'd rather people be upset about no booze than for a fist fight to break out at the reception (which has happened at other weddings/funerals when alcohol was involved).
IDGAF if it's dry or cash bar or whatever. I'll have fun either way, and if they're buying me dinner, providing entertainment, etc, I'm not going to complain they didn't give me alcohol on top of that. You're hosting, your rules.
If it was your wedding and some rando cousin called you up complaining there was no vegan option or they didn't like your venue, you'd hang up on their ass. But being so intense about if/how they serve alcohol is ok? I don't get it, guys.
This is where I generally sit*. I went to a college friend's wedding several years ago, and that was my first open bar ever. It just wasn't/isn't a thing where I grew up. I did go to a wedding once where you had to even buy your soft drinks, and that seemed a bit much.
*Though I do prefer having the option of alcohol, I just don't care about paying for it.
IDGAF if it's dry or cash bar or whatever. I'll have fun either way, and if they're buying me dinner, providing entertainment, etc, I'm not going to complain they didn't give me alcohol on top of that. You're hosting, your rules.
If it was your wedding and some rando cousin called you up complaining there was no vegan option or they didn't like your venue, you'd hang up on their ass. But being so intense about if/how they serve alcohol is ok? I don't get it, guys.
This is where I generally sit*. I went to a college friend's wedding several years ago, and that was my first open bar ever. It just wasn't/isn't a thing where I grew up. I did go to a wedding once where you had to even buy your soft drinks, and that seemed a bit much.
*Though I do prefer having the option of alcohol, I just don't care about paying for it.
Hell no to buying your own soft drinks. I would side eye the shit out of that.
I have self-proclaimed orangutan tits. It's not that they are fucking huge or anything, but they are decently sized and be falling to the sides quite a bit.
I took my dog on a walk this morning in a ratty t-shirt that normally is loose, but with IVF treatments, I have been bloated AF. I didn't wear a bra, and my nips were pokin' out a bit.
I passed several neighbors I know. I just know they were like:
This is where I generally sit*. I went to a college friend's wedding several years ago, and that was my first open bar ever. It just wasn't/isn't a thing where I grew up. I did go to a wedding once where you had to even buy your soft drinks, and that seemed a bit much.
*Though I do prefer having the option of alcohol, I just don't care about paying for it.
Hell no to buying your own soft drinks. I would side eye the shit out of that.
I judge pretty much none of the standard etiquette stuff, but yeah. Only other wedding thing I've ever judged: the second (or third or something) cousins who hand-wrote "greenbacks only, please" on the backs of the invites. Yep.
Hell no to buying your own soft drinks. I would side eye the shit out of that.
I judge pretty much none of the standard etiquette stuff, but yeah. Only other wedding thing I've ever judged: the second (or third or something) cousins who hand-wrote "greenbacks only, please" on the backs of the invites. Yep.
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