I am so confused by this thread. McBenny we all know you and LSJ interacted and didn't see eye to eye usually. Who cares?
I just wanted that to be clear.
I know a lot of you don't get it or understand it. I don't like being made out to be a bully. Maybe this is immature. Maybe I am in my feelings. However, there was a whole discussion about me this morning and I feel I have the right to respond.
I know Larry happened. Please do not try to convince me otherwise. Please don't talk to me about coffee. I don't drink it. I don't caffeine. When I state my opinion, that is me chiming in on a topic. This is not me saying you suck at life if you do or feel differently. If I want to say that, I will. If I want to speak on you, I will.
Listen, I'm not crazy about this thread because I don't like that LSJ isn't here to respond to what's being said. However, saying that creating the thread is a sign of something "unhealthy" is a bit much. Come on. Someone in the sitewide thread said they "don't like" her just today. To have feelings and want to address the overall situation is a normal human reaction. Do I think this particular reaction is ill-advised? Yeah. But "unhealthy relationship with a message board" is overly dramatic and not helpful, IMO.
I think McBenny's thread is over dramatic and not helpful.
This is not going to get her the closure that she needs regarding this issue.
And I'm not the only one seeing her acting a bit insane about shit on a message board.
I was not looking for closure.
I felt that instead of comments being made here and there by different people in different places it could be in one place. Might be insane to you or whoever. I don't care. I really don't.
Last Edit: Aug 11, 2016 13:30:45 GMT -5 by McBenny
I know Larry happened. Please do not try to convince me otherwise. Please don't talk to me about coffee. I don't drink it. I don't caffeine. When I state my opinion, that is me chiming in on a topic. This is not me saying you suck at life if you do or feel differently. If I want to say that, I will. If I want to speak on you, I will.
I know Larry happened. Please do not try to convince me otherwise. Please don't talk to me about coffee. I don't drink it. I don't caffeine. When I state my opinion, that is me chiming in on a topic. This is not me saying you suck at life if you do or feel differently. If I want to say that, I will. If I want to speak on you, I will.
I know Larry happened. Please do not try to convince me otherwise. Please don't talk to me about coffee. I don't drink it. I don't caffeine. When I state my opinion, that is me chiming in on a topic. This is not me saying you suck at life if you do or feel differently. If I want to say that, I will. If I want to speak on you, I will.
I know Larry happened. Please do not try to convince me otherwise. Please don't talk to me about coffee. I don't drink it. I don't caffeine. When I state my opinion, that is me chiming in on a topic. This is not me saying you suck at life if you do or feel differently. If I want to say that, I will. If I want to speak on you, I will.
I know Larry happened. Please do not try to convince me otherwise. Please don't talk to me about coffee. I don't drink it. I don't caffeine. When I state my opinion, that is me chiming in on a topic. This is not me saying you suck at life if you do or feel differently. If I want to say that, I will. If I want to speak on you, I will.
I know Larry happened. Please do not try to convince me otherwise. Please don't talk to me about coffee. I don't drink it. I don't caffeine. When I state my opinion, that is me chiming in on a topic. This is not me saying you suck at life if you do or feel differently. If I want to say that, I will. If I want to speak on you, I will.
Also just for clarification purposes - I lurked LLC hard. I stayed out of the baby shit. I think I made one post.
The GTG shit - I stayed out of. This is what really made me not go in there for a long time.
I had 2 back up Larries for important things like the password change. However, one has since deleted and the other is taking a TCF break so I was out of the loop. Sorry.
I won't go there if there is an issue. I never was involved in any drama over there.
I know Larry happened. Please do not try to convince me otherwise. Please don't talk to me about coffee. I don't drink it. I don't caffeine. When I state my opinion, that is me chiming in on a topic. This is not me saying you suck at life if you do or feel differently. If I want to say that, I will. If I want to speak on you, I will.
I know a lot of you don't get it or understand it. I don't like being made out to be a bully. Maybe this is immature. Maybe I am in my feelings. However, there was a whole discussion about me this morning and I feel I have the right to respond.
I can relate to this right now. So I'll lay it out here instead of "all over the place." LSJ felt like you were on her ass. This was a contributing factor to her leaving. The fact that you just made a thread to talk about her and quote her when she can't respond just kind of adds on to it.
You do have a right to respond. You are doing so. Great.
As far as her deleting her stuff, theo convinced her to do that instead of deactivating, but then she ended up deactivating anyway. So lay off her for that if you please.
I'm fine going back to scrolling on by for the most part. I was in a mood yesterday so I came out. I was not in the same mood today, but that's when shit hit the fan so here I am.
I will not feel bad about sticking up for a friend.
The purpose of the thread wasn't to talk about her. It was to lay it out there. You kept on.
I don't care about her deleting her shit. I really don't. It only sucks cause I can't show that we would go back and forth towards one another. It was not all me. It was 2 people.
The thing is you weren't sticking up for a friend. You just started coming at me with vague aggressiveness and then someone else commented on it. You weren't addressing anything with me. You were talking about me. I feel the whole manner in how this has been handled is lame AF.
People argue around here. Often. Some times about stupid shit if we are honest. Different people, different days, about different things. I felt she liked to argue with me cause she did it often. I can only speak to my part in it but if I knew then that it would be taken so seriously, I would have acted differently.
I commend your intent but your delivery sucked ass.
I know Larry happened. Please do not try to convince me otherwise. Please don't talk to me about coffee. I don't drink it. I don't caffeine. When I state my opinion, that is me chiming in on a topic. This is not me saying you suck at life if you do or feel differently. If I want to say that, I will. If I want to speak on you, I will.
kept on? here? This was my first post here. The first post yesterday was me telling you I agree with the people who tit things about you. I thought that was clear enough. Apparently not. I'll work on my delivery.
LOL - now this is all so confusing to you.
No. You had a full discussion about me this morning in the site wide thread. You had your little digs yesterday and your discussion this morning. That's not defending a friend. That's not addressing anything. That's lame AF. That's like school yard stuff. Great talk.
Last Edit: Aug 11, 2016 14:16:56 GMT -5 by McBenny
I know Larry happened. Please do not try to convince me otherwise. Please don't talk to me about coffee. I don't drink it. I don't caffeine. When I state my opinion, that is me chiming in on a topic. This is not me saying you suck at life if you do or feel differently. If I want to say that, I will. If I want to speak on you, I will.
I know a lot of you don't get it or understand it. I don't like being made out to be a bully. Maybe this is immature. Maybe I am in my feelings. However, there was a whole discussion about me this morning and I feel I have the right to respond.
I can relate to this right now. So I'll lay it out here instead of "all over the place." LSJ felt like you were on her ass. This was a contributing factor to her leaving. The fact that you just made a thread to talk about her and quote her when she can't respond just kind of adds on to it.
You do have a right to respond. You are doing so. Great.
As far as her deleting her stuff, theo convinced her to do that instead of deactivating, but then she ended up deactivating anyway. So lay off her for that if you please.
I'm fine going back to scrolling on by for the most part. I was in a mood yesterday so I came out. I was not in the same mood today, but that's when shit hit the fan so here I am.
I will not feel bad about sticking up for a friend.
OK. I love both McBenny and LSJ, but the fact that you know that she felt that way and that is why she left the boards shows that she was talking about this means that LSJ was talking somewhere without Mcbenny given a chance to respond so.
I honestly don't have a dog in this fight, but I would hate to be called a bully and being told I am the reason that someone had to deactivate from a close community when that person gave just as good as she got a lot of the time.
McBenny , I really actually love and care for you girl, but bringing up posts from 5+ months ago to prove someone said something to make a point in your favor and that person isn't even here any more is a sign of an unhealthy relationship with a message board.
I don't mean GBTCF but maybe you need a break from this.
Listen, I'm not crazy about this thread because I don't like that LSJ isn't here to respond to what's being said. However, saying that creating the thread is a sign of something "unhealthy" is a bit much. Come on. Someone in the sitewide thread said they "don't like" her just today. To have feelings and want to address the overall situation is a normal human reaction. Do I think this particular reaction is ill-advised? Yeah. But "unhealthy relationship with a message board" is overly dramatic and not helpful, IMO.
Sorry y'all I'm on the newborn's schedule.
But yes, so much this.
I don't think this thread should've been made because people are gonna feel how they feel regardless.
But, I completely understand the emotions behind it.
I'm really not feeling the gaslighting that's happening here. The "what are you talking about?" "You're so crazy" thing can get very old very quickly.
Homegirl admitted to not looking Mcbenny and throwing out some digs. That wasn't a figment of anyone's imagination.
I know Larry happened. Please do not try to convince me otherwise. Please don't talk to me about coffee. I don't drink it. I don't caffeine. When I state my opinion, that is me chiming in on a topic. This is not me saying you suck at life if you do or feel differently. If I want to say that, I will. If I want to speak on you, I will.
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