blueinred I actually read about a non-profit at a NICU in Chicago that provides parking passes for families with babies at NICU since the financial issues are a hurdle for many families. The parking in SF is $30 a day and we get a discount so that its $18.75 a day, but that's still a lot for many families.
I feel blessed that I'm able to be here with LO, though it's hard not to be with DD.
I totally understand when people cannot be here with their kids, especially when it's more extended stays. My issue was just confusion that the parents seemed so vocal and opinionated (in an abrasive manner) then kind of disappeared without anyone knowing how to get ahold of them. I'm glad the dad is back now and hope that the surgery can happen soon. (I'm a snoop, but also their room is right by my son's so it's hard not to hear what's going on)
Post by spicysalmonroll on Aug 12, 2016 16:57:08 GMT -5
A friend loaned me her rock n play and I had DS sleep in it for like 2 weeks. Then I read a ton of articles about how it should not be used for sleeping. Since they are in a recline/slouched position they are at risk for the chin to chest airway restriction. And a bunch of articles said it contributed to head and neck problems. So I have no idea, even though he seemed to liked it, that freaked me out and I've been making him sleep in the flat bassinet.
Just got back from the OB. Out of curiosity, I gave her the go-ahead to do an internal exam. Apparently I'm not dilated at all, but she is very low and my cervix is "softening." So...I know just about as much as I did when I went in.
Ha. Mine did an internal at my appointment on Wednesday. I'm a half cm dilated and laughed at the result. "Better than nothing at all, I guess?" I asked her. She laughed, too. I didn't get an effacement update.
Anything can happen. At any time. I'm embracing that instead.
Awww - that's so sad shanny. Hope that baby is ok.
hannahbear - Right now we have just a bouncer but were contemplating on getting either an RNP or swing in addition to the bouncer. I guess we'll see how it goes when baby is here!
So, my OB appt went well this AM. The BPP went well and we have an induction date! (Please, please, please do not bump me!!!). I'm 2cm dilated and 60% effaced. Induction to start cervidil will be Monday night & baby should be here by late afternoon-early evening Tuesday. I'll be updating my labor buddy eaglewife as time nears and when baby is here!
A friend loaned me her rock n play and I had DS sleep in it for like 2 weeks. Then I read a ton of articles about how it should not be used for sleeping. Since they are in a recline/slouched position they are at risk for the chin to chest airway restriction. And a bunch of articles said it contributed to head and neck problems. So I have no idea, even though he seemed to liked it, that freaked me out and I've been making him sleep in the flat bassinet.
Yeah... rock n plays are not even allowed in Canada because of this. I was floored to learn that.
It isn't meant for sleeping. People use it that way, though. If it's the only place your kid will sleep, then I'm of the opinion that you do what you gotta do. If your son will sleep in the bassinet, then use that instead!
A friend loaned me her rock n play and I had DS sleep in it for like 2 weeks. Then I read a ton of articles about how it should not be used for sleeping. Since they are in a recline/slouched position they are at risk for the chin to chest airway restriction. And a bunch of articles said it contributed to head and neck problems. So I have no idea, even though he seemed to liked it, that freaked me out and I've been making him sleep in the flat bassinet.
Yeah, physical therapists at my job hate them for that reason. When we registered I got all sorts of opinions on what was good versus not good. I think they're probably not as terrible as they say, but there are other options to try as well.
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Post by hashbrownnofilter on Aug 12, 2016 18:00:30 GMT -5
hannahbear I got a rock n play for #2 because it's portable - I figure it is a decent baby holder to move from floor to floor, since DS is all over the place. I didn't have one for DS and didn't miss it. I'll probably end up wearing her in a wrap around the house a lot of the time anyway, if she's anything like DS.
The MW's office finally called to see if I was alive. I told them we called after #2 came out and told the on call line and never heard back from anyone. I guess I'm glad they noticed, but umm it took a while.
The MW's office finally called to see if I was alive. I told them we called after #2 came out and told the on call line and never heard back from anyone. I guess I'm glad they noticed, but umm it took a while.
The MW's office finally called to see if I was alive. I told them we called after #2 came out and told the on call line and never heard back from anyone. I guess I'm glad they noticed, but umm it took a while.
Oh wow!
You would think they would get the hint when the hospital we were dropped off at asked for medical records, or when I called to cancel my induction, or when we called to tell them she was born! I will not be recommending them to people that is for sure.
DH went golfing today. I thought I would mind, but he was so helpful the last few days and this LO is being so good I was happy he could go. Had you asked me last week if I'd be cool with that I would have totally looked at you like you had lost your mind.
Okay, maybe its weird or creepy, but idgaf, I am just like this... if anyone wants to be facebook buddies or meet up for coffee pals or something (not that too many of ya'll are anywhere near me haha), let me know! I am down for that sort of thing.
Post by frodabaggins on Aug 12, 2016 19:45:36 GMT -5
shanny - so sad. Rama great perspective - hope you are right!
spicysalmonroll - wow, I didn't know this. I never got a rock n play, but DS slept most of the time in his Snugbunny bouncer chair for those first three months, if I wasn't holding him. I depended on that thing like crazy and already have it set up for the baby when she arrives, just in case she also loves it. Maybe she will surprise me and be perfectly happy in the bassinet, which DS HATED.
Tomorrow is my birthday so I came into an office decorated with balloons, a card, a happy birthday sign and a strawberry ice cream pie with cool whip and fresh strawberries divine! And my boss took me out to a crazy decadent Italian lunch! Sunday is DS' birthday too.
And all at once, let me just say... ouch! I have been on the go go go since 9:30 this morning, and just at 5:30 got to really sit down and relax. I got a boatload of things done, like 90% of my nesting list of OH GOD FINISH THIS got done with my mom's help, but I am rrrreeeeeaaallllllllly hoping I didn't overdo it.
My mom lifted dang near everything, but my pelvis feels like its cracking apart and bruised as hell. I am shocked I am not swelling or anything. DD climbed up on the couch with me and passed out 5 minutes later, so I guess she is tired, too! Haha I will let her sleep an hour and then worry about dinner. And a hot shower. Mmmmmm. I think I want the latter way more than the former!
Wasn't there someone else here with pierced nipples who was concerned about breastfeeding? I just wanted to add my anecdote.
The milk pours from the holes. LO is happy. My piercing closed on the other boob and it seems to be a slower producer overall, but is probably normal and just seems lacking in comparison.
That was probably me. I thought mine were closed because I took the jewelry out at least five years ago, but I get milk from the holes, too. So weird.
Post by gratefulgirl on Aug 12, 2016 22:00:38 GMT -5
I forgot to take my pain meds in the midst of craziness at home. Ouch. Finally remembered.
DD3 is straight up not sleeping. She is hungry since my milk is not yet in. I am so sad for her AND so exhausted. I will call the ped tomorrow if it is not in to see about supplementing until it shows up.
It has been a bad day for all 5 of us for various reasons.
Post by spicysalmonroll on Aug 13, 2016 1:38:21 GMT -5
So at night time when I feed and try to put him to bed, he spits up a ton and I spend a half hour awake just watching him in the bassinet and wiping it/ waiting for it to happen/patting his back. H just gave me attitude about how "everything online says to hold him upright for 30 min after feeding." I said well I'm tired feeding him 5 fucking times at night so excuse me that I don't want to sit in the rocker for 30 of my 60 minutes between feedings. He said well you're spending the time watching him fuss and spit up anyways.
So now I'm currently sitting here holding him upright at 2:30am and I'm annoyed because he doesn't seem to have this problem at all during the day. Daytime he feeds and immediately passes out with no spit up so im like wtf.... I was trying to "train" him to fall asleep on his own and now I fear if I have to do this each time that he's going to need me (heartbeat, warmth, etc) to fall asleep.
Post by dorkusmalorkus on Aug 13, 2016 3:45:38 GMT -5
gratefulgirl I'm sorry you all had a difficult day. Hope your weekend is better!
spicysalmonroll Oof, that's rough! My H is very logical and would've suggested the same thing, but I completely see your need to sleep during those limited breaks. That does seem strange that he's fine during the day--frustrating! I'm sorry you're dealing with all of that! I wish I had some useful advice.
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