I don't like when little girls get their ears pierced really young (like 6 months). I think it should be a bonding experience later in life and when they have a valid reason for wanting to do it.
Post by erinshelley21 on Sept 1, 2016 8:14:08 GMT -5
I am glad summer is practically over.
Its my busiest time of the year for work, DH's side job is mowing (this is his last year for it) so he's never home between that and the fire department, and I typically gain weight during the summer since I'm eating whatever is easiest to grab.
meggypoo1 I don't find that unpopular for me, but it would definitely be unpopular to the rest of my family. They're down my throat about getting C's ears pierced (she'll be 4 in November).
My response to them is, "when she's old enough to take care of them and ask for them herself, we will reconsider."
Post by moutonrouge on Sept 1, 2016 8:20:49 GMT -5
I find it really strange when people take horoscopes and astrological signs so seriously. Do they actually think that temperament/personality is dictated by that stuff? I've met quite a few people who think I must be a certain way because I'm a Scorpio, and I do not get it.
Not saying I don't read horoscopes for fun (I especially like the funny ones that The Onion does) - just saying I think they're made up.
I know this is going to be unpopular here, but I don't understand the baby wearing obsession. I get the convenience of actually baby wearing, I just can't get behind the collecting of multiple styles or patterns. I also don't understand the baby wearing meetup groups, it just seems like such a small part of parenting to fixate on
At least in my city, I feel like baby wearing is almost a status thing and I think the meetups are a little bit (or a lot, depending on the neighborhood) about that.
Although, I plan to go to try out/borrow a carrier so I don't buy one I hate or never use. I do think the meetup groups are helpful/cool in that respect.
I know this is going to be unpopular here, but I don't understand the baby wearing obsession. I get the convenience of actually baby wearing, I just can't get behind the collecting of multiple styles or patterns. I also don't understand the baby wearing meetup groups, it just seems like such a small part of parenting to fixate on
I'm with you. I had 2 baby carriers that were totally different styles (one a wrap style and the other and more structured style). That's really all you need. I'm not really sure the need to buy a million different ones with millions of different prints. Especially with how pricey they all are!
I find it really strange when people take horoscopes and astrological signs so seriously. Do they actually think that temperament/personality is dictated by that stuff? I've met quite a few people who think I must be a certain way because I'm a Scorpio, and I do not get it.
Not saying I don't read horoscopes for fun (I especially like the funny ones that The Onion does) - just saying I think they're made up.
MY SIL planned both of her conceptions based on astrological sign. She got what she wanted both times. It would be funny if I didn't have PCOS, one mmc, one fertility drug baby, and one blighted ovum. This pregnancy was all me though!!! Glad they conceived so easily, but yeah, major eye roll.
I know this is going to be unpopular here, but I don't understand the baby wearing obsession. I get the convenience of actually baby wearing, I just can't get behind the collecting of multiple styles or patterns. I also don't understand the baby wearing meetup groups, it just seems like such a small part of parenting to fixate on
I have 1ssc, 2 wraps and a ring sling. I follow bw groups on fb. I'm amazed by it and think some wraps are beautiful. But have never been to a meet up.
Post by daisylola11 on Sept 1, 2016 9:24:39 GMT -5
Our baby wearing group is awesome! It's really more moms who all have something in common getting together for playdates. They welcome new comers and help them with any questions they may have, and how to use different carriers in different ways. Maybe since its popular around here it doesn't seem like a big deal.
I get those who buy a lot, I'm not one of them, it's like anything else ppl get obsessed about, shoes purses, clothes, jewelry and they buy more than they "need."
Post by ladytiffany24 on Sept 1, 2016 9:30:53 GMT -5
daisylola11, Good point! I don't have much of a collection of any one thing so I guess its just not really my thing to do that in general, no matter what the product is!
I find it really strange when people take horoscopes and astrological signs so seriously. Do they actually think that temperament/personality is dictated by that stuff? I've met quite a few people who think I must be a certain way because I'm a Scorpio, and I do not get it.
Not saying I don't read horoscopes for fun (I especially like the funny ones that The Onion does) - just saying I think they're made up.
MY SIL planned both of her conceptions based on astrological sign. She got what she wanted both times. It would be funny if I didn't have PCOS, one mmc, one fertility drug baby, and one blighted ovum. This pregnancy was all me though!!! Glad they conceived so easily, but yeah, major eye roll.
I can just imagine my face if someone told me they were so glad they got pregnant now because the timing was so good for astrological reasons.
I met a friend of my mom's 2 weekends ago, and when she heard we are both Scorpios that was all she wanted to talk about for the rest of lunch. She was fascinated, wanted to know all about how we got along when I was growing up. It boggles the mind.
Post by daisylola11 on Sept 1, 2016 9:37:54 GMT -5
Im all for thrifting and finding good deals. But I still will buy my son $30-$40 shoes because I know they will last him a whole season with out them looking sad at the end.
UO because everyone says I'm crazy since he will just outgrow or get them dirty.
Post by daisylola11 on Sept 1, 2016 9:45:55 GMT -5
ugaqueencity my friend and I always joke we should have a stroller group and have a lending library for moms to try them out! some of us are obsessed with strollers and have 2+ each so it could work!!
I think it's because there's so many ways to wrap and it's more interactive? I've only been to a few of mine, will probably go a few more times when this LO arrives to get tips and refresh
I guess my question is why is it a baby wearing group and not just a mom group? It seems like babywearing is pretty common at this point so it's not some small subset of parenting like attachment parenting. In my mind baby carriers are just another item to make life with a baby easier, people aren't going to baby swing meet ups to discuss which swing gets their kid to sleep the longest. I'm all for creating connections and making it easier for people to meet new friends by whatever means necessary, baby wearing just seems like such a strangely specific thing to focus on
I wanted to go to one in my area, but haven't found one. Mostly to try on a few carriers before purchasing one. You can't really find many in the store, and even then they are boxed up. I just wanted a try before you buy kind of thing. But like I said, I haven't found an active one in my area.
My UO, I don't like after people edit their post that they add "ETA: "reason why"" I don't really care that you had to fix your spelling or grammar. If you are editing b/c you are a bonehead, and trying to cover your tracks you aren't going to say that. Just seems like a waste of time to type, and for me to read.
My UO, I don't like after people edit their post that they add "ETA: "reason why"" I don't really care that you had to fix your spelling or grammar. If you are editing b/c you are a bonehead, and trying to cover your tracks you aren't going to say that. Just seems like a waste of time to type, and for me to read.
I never list a reason if I edit an autocorrect! Plus ETA stands for "edited to ADD." If i actually add something or hit reply too early, I'll do an ETA because of course that'll be the post that someone quotes before I can fix it.
I know this is going to be unpopular here, but I don't understand the baby wearing obsession. I get the convenience of actually baby wearing, I just can't get behind the collecting of multiple styles or patterns. I also don't understand the baby wearing meetup groups, it just seems like such a small part of parenting to fixate on
I haven't read all of the responses but: -Babywearing has saved my ass on multiple occasions. I can go to a restaurant and enjoy a hot meal with two hands while my kid sleeps on me. -I have managed to make it through the airport 8 times without a stroller while also wrangling my suitcase, car seat, carry on, etc. -The meet up for me is how I was able to try on multiple styles of carriers to determine which I liked best. That way I didn't waste my money on a carrier I hated. They also have taught me so much and given tips on how to make sure I'm carrying C SAFELY which is really important. I plan to go back to learn the best carries for her age and pregnancy.
The different carriers/patterns for me is more about versatility. My wrap does many things that my Ergo can't but my Ergo serves other purposes. Same with my ring sling. I like them all for different things.
Well I know who I will be asking for advice when I am ready to buy a new baby carrier! 😉
Im all for thrifting and finding good deals. But I still will buy my son $30-$40 shoes because I know they will last him a whole season with out them looking sad at the end.
UO because everyone says I'm crazy since he will just outgrow or get them dirty.
Due to wide feet in myself and every one of my girls.. I go Stride Rite EVERY time. I got lucky though, we lived near an outlet when we were in Denver.
The one time I let my mil get them something else, Alexandria ended up with a blister between her toes I didn't know about.. and we got sand in it at the beach Worst family time ever.. girls holding her down, hubby trying to calm her, while I tortured her scrubbing the sand out. Good shoes are worth it.
Umm.. are we sure this is a UO? ~laugh~ I agree with pretty much everything Didn't pierce my girls' ears. Now they don't want them pierced.. which is fine with me.. plenty of time in life for whatever they want..
I did babywear.. but for convenience. They had slings at my breastfeeding support group in my first hospital with my first little one. SOOO convenient. I have got to find a picture of the times I've used it to take the twins out so I could walk when noone was around to help. I put a Kelty on my back and a sling on my front. THAT is a workout >< I would love to learn more about different ones. I have a feeling this child is going to be worn a LOT considering I'm still going to be keeping up with two three year olds.
Astrological signs baffle me. I'm a Taurus, so yeah.. I'm stubborn.. none of my kids are taurus.. but they are all stubborn too. They're mine. lol
Okay, my brain just lost the rest..
My own? The idea that video games are a waste of time and stupid. It's a freakin' hobby. (Yep, digging here.. I tend to pretty easy going.)
Im all for thrifting and finding good deals. But I still will buy my son $30-$40 shoes because I know they will last him a whole season with out them looking sad at the end.
UO because everyone says I'm crazy since he will just outgrow or get them dirty.
Due to wide feet in myself and every one of my girls.. I go Stride Rite EVERY time. I got lucky though, we lived near an outlet when we were in Denver.
The one time I let my mil get them something else, Alexandria ended up with a blister between her toes I didn't know about.. and we got sand in it at the beach Worst family time ever.. girls holding her down, hubby trying to calm her, while I tortured her scrubbing the sand out. Good shoes are worth it.
Yes wide fat feet run in my family!! Poor DS lol I dont usually like the look of the stride rite boy shoes, but he wore a lot of robeez and then when I find a sale the Livie and Luca shoes are amazing, and next has some cute ones too.
Same. DS isn't because DH isn't and my side of the family is super weird about it.
I will expect some family push back and awkwardness about circumcision if we have a boy too. My nephew is circumcised and watching the situation unfold with him just confirms why we'll make the choice to keep our son intact. It will be uncomfortable for family, to say the least, but I plan to shut down those conversations if they do come up and get weird. All of this is assuming we have a boy. Could be a moot point. We'll see.
Disclaimer: I do not have strong feelings either way. Circ or don't, I'm whatever about the subject.
I've actually had someone(in my family) tell me intact was gross and unnatural. I....did not react well. Because, well, the uncircumcised penis is natural.
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