Last Edit: Jan 31, 2017 13:19:38 GMT -5 by zombiewasabi
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Post by zombiewasabi on Jan 31, 2017 13:21:25 GMT -5
I'd be willing to bet there is so much missing to this story there's no point in trying to figure it out. And the OP would probably not be the good guy if we knew all the facts.
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Yep, she did state that the state had already opened a child support case against the bio dad shortly after DD was born (while they were together), which they would do if she were on some kind of assistance.
I don't get the whole common law thing. (another one here that googled OK law)
You can file taxes together, use your spouse's name, have to get a real divorce .... the only difference I see is that for CL you have to argue about and provide a list of "proof" as opposed to just taking 2 minutes to sign a license.
Just...why?
I know this is aside from the primary issues in this post but...my head hurts.
Post by summerbabe on Jan 31, 2017 13:53:00 GMT -5
Ah, this is so much. But if there are drug issues and DV issues next door, and your SO is having trouble saying no to his mother ever (past issues aside), I think you guys need to make a plan to figure out how to eventually live further away if it is going to work out. I'm glad the kids are vaccinated.
In the meantime I think it would help to change the locks. I'm not saying cut them out and I get why they are invested.
Post by Cherhorowitz on Jan 31, 2017 13:53:13 GMT -5
Okay. So your H has used drugs in the past few years.
Just for the record, you said he had a drug and DUI arrest years ago, then you said he didn't use drugs, now you said he stopped when his son was born. It's much easier if you say the truth from the jump. We could probably save 5 or 6 pages.
Post by zombiewasabi on Jan 31, 2017 13:56:04 GMT -5
Has anyone suggested her SO finding a new job (I know this isn't easy, but it clearly would be beneficial) and moving like... not next door to the MIL?
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No need to delete Jane, seriously... some snark or ribbing is going to happen because people are confused and we're seeing a lot of inconsistencies or the timeline not making sense
When things are straight, clear and truthful... it is much easier to help, and this board is willing to do so. But we can't when it seems like we're missing much of the true story
And hey, I can understand if you're in a stressful situation are there are SO MANY details, it's not always easy to fit it all in and get it across clearly in a post... and it becomes a wall of text that is also hard to read
Try to break it down to the important points as much as you can... the hazy timeline and how you're defining these relationships makes it hard to give actual constructive advice
Wow lots of red flags here. I don't really understand your story. I would try individual and couples counseling.
Your SO needs to stand up and be a man and take care of his own child. Sounds like he won't or wasn't doing that for a long time and basically is letting his mom raise the child. If the child is not yours legally and this is what he wants to do is let his mom raise the child, then I am not sure what you can do since you are not a legal guardian are you?
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