I know this has come up before, but having to hide purchases is a red flag to me.
He knows I'm going to a new person vs. my cheap cuts from my BFF so more $ just the fact that it's money in gas to get to the further salon just this one time.
Are you driving a monster truck? Gas is relatively cheap now so I dont see how much extra money you are spending.
The haircut alone must be at least twice the amount spent for gas money
The money thing doesn't phase me much but I would be furious if my h was hours from home and I had no idea.
I'll be driving out of town that day for work anyway I was just going to tell him I had to be there earlier then just get my hair done. So he will know I'll be away. I guess I'm just rationalizing it now.
for entirely too long I thought the words to Rock the Casbah were Rock the Cash Bar, and the song was telling us to make it rain and live it up at the lame wedding cash bar
LOLOL
I love misheard lyrics stories.
For a long time I thought cheap thrills said hit the dumpster instead of hit the dance floor.
I'll be driving out of town that day for work anyway I was just going to tell him I had to be there earlier then just get my hair done. So he will know I'll be away. I guess I'm just rationalizing it now.
But why lie to him about it? Just tell him that you're leaving early so you can go get your hair done.
Because he would think it's so rediculous to drive that far away for a hair cut. When I could just go to my BFF here. But she doesn't know how to properly cut curly hair.
The money thing doesn't phase me much but I would be furious if my h was hours from home and I had no idea.
I'll be driving out of town that day for work anyway I was just going to tell him I had to be there earlier then just get my hair done. So he will know I'll be away. I guess I'm just rationalizing it now.
But if he notices your new haircut and asks where you got it are you planning to flat out lie?
I don't think you need his permission to go or anything like that, but I don't see a point in covering it up. Just tell him you're going.
But why lie to him about it? Just tell him that you're leaving early so you can go get your hair done.
Because he would think it's so rediculous to drive that far away for a hair cut. When I could just go to my BFF here. But she doesn't know how to properly cut curly hair.
Explain that to him. If he doesn't get it, so what. You're gonna do it regardless.
I have jury duty for two weeks coming up. I'm acting annoyed about it, but sitting somewhere quiet with my book and podcasts for long stretches sounds...kind of amazing.
I did jury duty years ago before having a kid and even then it was great. 3 days out the office, read my book, didn't have to do my long daily commute. Have fun!
DH and I often don't know which state the other is in. I travel to NY/CT/NH and he travels to MA/ME/RI on any given day. Meh. Not scandalized by the journey for a haircut.
for entirely too long I thought the words to Rock the Casbah were Rock the Cash Bar, and the song was telling us to make it rain and live it up at the lame wedding cash bar
Because he would think it's so rediculous to drive that far away for a hair cut. When I could just go to my BFF here. But she doesn't know how to properly cut curly hair.
Explain that to him. If he doesn't get it, so what. You're gonna do it regardless.
Yes this. I tried last night about the new guy I'm seeing in May (closer salon) and he still didn't understand.
For a long time I thought cheap thrills said hit the dumpster instead of hit the dance floor.
I always thought they were saying "I don't give a crap" in Nothing's Gonna Stop Us Now. Nope, it's "I don't care about that". My way was better...
Oh I just remembered a good one! In come on Eileen I swear he says I'm gonna hump this chick forever but I think I looked it up and he says I'm gonna hum this tune forever.
I'm pretty sure I sing the wrong lyrics to the majority of the current hits because most of the time we're listening to the Kidz Bop station in the car on the way to school. And sometimes I've made it to work before I realize I've forgotten to change the station.
Because he would think it's so rediculous to drive that far away for a hair cut. When I could just go to my BFF here. But she doesn't know how to properly cut curly hair.
He doesn't get curly hair and wanting to get a really good cut for it, that is OK. He doesn't need to.Tell him what you're doing and move on.
Thanks. I'm just going to tell him probably get into a fight over it and do it anyway. Then beg for forgiveness later lol.
for entirely too long I thought the words to Rock the Casbah were Rock the Cash Bar, and the song was telling us to make it rain and live it up at the lame wedding cash bar
LOLOL
I love misheard lyrics stories.
oh well you'll like this one then. I thought Nicki Minaj was saying SoupBase instead of Super Base. I could not figure out why she was rapping about soup.
Thanks! This is seriously the millionth time doing so (hello chronic relapser) but I feel great this time around. Trying to put more effort into my appearance/skin to motivate me to keep going.
I always thought they were saying "I don't give a crap" in Nothing's Gonna Stop Us Now. Nope, it's "I don't care about that". My way was better...
Oh I just remembered a good one! In come on Eileen I swear he says I'm gonna hump this chick forever but I think I looked it up and he says I'm gonna hum this tune forever.
DH and I often don't know which state the other is in. I travel to NY/CT/NH and he travels to MA/ME/RI on any given day. Meh. Not scandalized by the journey for a haircut.
I live in NY and will be staying in NY for the hair cut.
Thanks. I'm just going to tell him probably get into a fight over it and do it anyway. Then beg for forgiveness later lol.
You don't have anything to beg for forgiveness about. You are an adult, same as he is. You need a quality cut and he doesn't have to understand or validate that.
mariavontrapp, any chance it was accidental? We've had people do that where they just pull out the wrong card but then corrected it when they realized the mistake. Can you give her the chance to fix it or has it already been determined that she's trying to cover it up?
mena, all the lying/sneaking around/asking for permission/fighting over a hair cut and a tank of gas you are paying for with money you have saved seems...a bit much. Honestly, it sounds like you are a teenager sneaking out and lying about it to your parents.
DH and I often don't know which state the other is in. I travel to NY/CT/NH and he travels to MA/ME/RI on any given day. Meh. Not scandalized by the journey for a haircut.
I live in NY and will be staying in NY for the hair cut.
I'm on your side! I don't feel the need to be notified of DH's every move in a given day, up to and including long distance drives, unless we need to change our child care or dinner plans. Then again, you do say your DH would care, so maybe I'm no longer on your side!!
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