am I just overly sensitive or a total b*$#@?
Mar 16, 2015 15:59:29 GMT -5
Post by sko14 on Mar 16, 2015 15:59:29 GMT -5
Hey All!
Maybe its because today is Monday, or because I'm snowed in at home but I want to ask your opinions to my situation.
H and I have been TTC for a bit, only a few of my close friends know about it so far. They're aware that I'm a worrier and my family history/medical issues make our circumstance a little harder.
Just giving some background.. bare with me this was longer than I planned it being! :
A few months after they knew we were TTC, one of my friends found out she was pregnant. When she told me, I have to admit, I was more jealous than anything for the first little while. Mainly because she wasn't trying, didn't want kids at this stage of her life and it was a fluke. What bothered me most was that she wasn't happy about it. Not just the first little while, but for a few months. She complained about the morning sickness constantly (I totally get that this isn't unrealistic to complain about.. but to someone who is trying for a baby it just rubbed me the wrong way).
Recently, my doctor sent me for some bloodwork because she wants to get my hormone levels. She thinks one of my ovaries might not be working properly. This is a little unnerving but we're trying to just take everything in strides so I've been pretty hush hush about it. Today as we were texting, my girlfriend mentioned something and I responded with something along the lines of "I'd love to commit to going but H and I are dealing with some health stuff so I have to be in town for a blooddraw" She responded with "Ohh, ok" .. This is a girl that was in my wedding, that I've known for 14 years and she didn't even ask how I've been, whats wrong, how Im feeling.
I might be overreacting and I know she's busy but I feel like a friendship can't be this one sided, can it?
If this was the only time I would've let it go but this is months and months of me asking her how she is and if she needs anything and not even a "How are you".. Should I bring this up? Should I give her more slack because she's pregnant?
TIA everyone
Maybe its because today is Monday, or because I'm snowed in at home but I want to ask your opinions to my situation.
H and I have been TTC for a bit, only a few of my close friends know about it so far. They're aware that I'm a worrier and my family history/medical issues make our circumstance a little harder.
Just giving some background.. bare with me this was longer than I planned it being! :
A few months after they knew we were TTC, one of my friends found out she was pregnant. When she told me, I have to admit, I was more jealous than anything for the first little while. Mainly because she wasn't trying, didn't want kids at this stage of her life and it was a fluke. What bothered me most was that she wasn't happy about it. Not just the first little while, but for a few months. She complained about the morning sickness constantly (I totally get that this isn't unrealistic to complain about.. but to someone who is trying for a baby it just rubbed me the wrong way).
Recently, my doctor sent me for some bloodwork because she wants to get my hormone levels. She thinks one of my ovaries might not be working properly. This is a little unnerving but we're trying to just take everything in strides so I've been pretty hush hush about it. Today as we were texting, my girlfriend mentioned something and I responded with something along the lines of "I'd love to commit to going but H and I are dealing with some health stuff so I have to be in town for a blooddraw" She responded with "Ohh, ok" .. This is a girl that was in my wedding, that I've known for 14 years and she didn't even ask how I've been, whats wrong, how Im feeling.
I might be overreacting and I know she's busy but I feel like a friendship can't be this one sided, can it?
If this was the only time I would've let it go but this is months and months of me asking her how she is and if she needs anything and not even a "How are you".. Should I bring this up? Should I give her more slack because she's pregnant?
TIA everyone