Number One: Born 06.16.2009 BFP: 01.17.2014 / MC 02.05.2014 BFP: 03.08.2014 / MMC: 05.07.2014 Dx: Partial Molar/GTD. Benched until 01.2015 Number Two: Born 07.22.2016
It means you are here watching everything we say. Or at least logging in on the regular to see what's going on. It's not like you get notifications on your phone or something.
@septembre, so obviously you are paying attention and here all the time. So, what's your new screen name?
They weren't harping solely on the fact she was TTA, it was a mixture of TTA and being upset about CD1 then being sad about seeing baby stuff everywhere but joining a board about GKU. It was the weird mix of all those things.
The baby stuff + CD1 really got under people's skin since there are several ladies here who have been TTC for many, many months.
It was never about JUST TTA status.
And my point is that it didn't always come off across that way. As someone who is also TTA, some comments felt exclusionary. Maybe I'm being sensitive because I wish we could TTC, but it just felt a tad over the line given that there may be other posters here with similar stories who may interpret the comments in a different way. The Internet is vague.
I'm TTA due to a loss and not being ready. I wanted to throttle her for being upset for not wanting to shop for a baby shower because it was too much baby stuff and was making her sad. Others wanted to throttle her for the baby stuff reason, but because they've been trying so long. Some were pissed because of how she worded her CD1 upset-ness. Others were pissed because of all these things and perplexed she joined a GKU board on top of it.
In other words: everyone is pissed at her for their own reasons. One things for sure though- we're all pissed.
And my point is that it didn't always come off across that way. As someone who is also TTA, some comments felt exclusionary. Maybe I'm being sensitive because I wish we could TTC, but it just felt a tad over the line given that there may be other posters here with similar stories who may interpret the comments in a different way. The Internet is vague.
I'm TTA due to a loss and not being ready. I wanted to throttle her for being upset for not wanting to shop for a baby shower because it was too much baby stuff and was making her sad. Others wanted to throttle her for the baby stuff reason, but because they've been trying so long. Some were pissed because of how she worded her CD1 upset-ness. Others were pissed because of all these things and perplexed she joined a GKU board on top of it.
In other words: everyone is pissed at her for their own reasons. One things for sure though- we're all pissed.
Now that I can agree with: we are all definitely pissed at her.
Met in May 2011 Engaged November 2011 Married November 2013 Started TTC November 2015 Began Infertility Workup November 2016 BFP! Lucky #13 Cycle TTC Due Date: 9/5/2017
It means you are here watching everything we say. Or at least logging in on the regular to see what's going on. It's not like you get notifications on your phone or something.
TTC #1 since August 2013 DX: Endo November 2014: Hysteroscopy, D&C June - September 2015: Clomid + Novarel + IUI #1-3 January 2017: Laparoscopy - endo removed
They weren't harping solely on the fact she was TTA, it was a mixture of TTA and being upset about CD1 then being sad about seeing baby stuff everywhere but joining a board about GKU. It was the weird mix of all those things.
The baby stuff + CD1 really got under people's skin since there are several ladies here who have been TTC for many, many months.
It was never about JUST TTA status.
OMG RABLISSFUL! I am so sorry for a sec I thought your were Rutherlily. It was a mind fuck...
HAHAHA it's ok. Between the dogs and the r's it is a mind fuck. That's one reason I try not to get involved with her dramz...
Well, the world's most sensitive Sally finally got through to the end of the thread, icaughtfire This will be a bit scattered, but I promise to be careful with my words and to not cross the line like I did a few days ago. I wanted to apologize again to y'all for that. I felt horrible for the rest of the weekend, and still do.
Usually if there is a registry and all of the gifts are over my price range, I buy simple, common sense items that I know will be useful or purchase a gift card. I don't find it that complicated of a situation, especially if having a baby is not supposed to be on your radar at the moment anyway.
Marriage counseling is awesome. DH and I have gone a few times. Since then, we have gotten so much better at talking to each other and being real partners. I highly recommend it, even if it is only for a few sessions. The benefits will still be there.
Is it just my imagination or is Julia masquerading as counterbutter? And is there another MrsSept#s or am I hallucinating? It's been a rough few days. Someone give me some clarity!!!
I'm TTA due to a loss and not being ready. I wanted to throttle her for being upset for not wanting to shop for a baby shower because it was too much baby stuff and was making her sad. Others wanted to throttle her for the baby stuff reason, but because they've been trying so long. Some were pissed because of how she worded her CD1 upset-ness. Others were pissed because of all these things and perplexed she joined a GKU board on top of it.
In other words: everyone is pissed at her for their own reasons. One things for sure though- we're all pissed.
Now that I can agree with: we are all definitely pissed at her.
It means you are here watching everything we say. Or at least logging in on the regular to see what's going on. It's not like you get notifications on your phone or something.
I log in occasionally and read.
So both times you've been tagged, you just HAPPENED to log in within a very short period of time on that very same day and respond?
Well, the world's most sensitive Sally finally got through to the end of the thread, icaughtfire This will be a bit scattered, but I promise to be careful with my words and to not cross the line like I did a few days ago. I wanted to apologize again to y'all for that. I felt horrible for the rest of the weekend, and still do.
Usually if there is a registry and all of the gifts are over my price range, I buy simple, common sense items that I know will be useful or purchase a gift card. I don't find it that complicated of a situation, especially if having a baby is not supposed to be on your radar at the moment anyway.
Marriage counseling is awesome. DH and I have gone a few times. Since then, we have gotten so much better at talking to each other and being real partners. I highly recommend it, even if it is only for a few sessions. The benefits will still be there.
Is it just my imagination or is Julia masquerading as counterbutter? And is there another MrsSept#s or am I hallucinating? It's been a rough few days. Someone give me some clarity!!!
Also: I guess some things never change.
Thanks! That was really helpful. And I'll apologize again to you because you seemed really upset by my past idiocy. I promise I'm not as stupid as it's coming across.
It means you are here watching everything we say. Or at least logging in on the regular to see what's going on. It's not like you get notifications on your phone or something.
I log in occasionally and read.
No, the last time you logged on was March 25. you just happened to come back this time, and I tagged you? no.
Same with the last time this happened. You are here, all day, everyday. Maybe not as @septembre, but as someone else.
Well, the world's most sensitive Sally finally got through to the end of the thread, icaughtfire This will be a bit scattered, but I promise to be careful with my words and to not cross the line like I did a few days ago. I wanted to apologize again to y'all for that. I felt horrible for the rest of the weekend, and still do.
Usually if there is a registry and all of the gifts are over my price range, I buy simple, common sense items that I know will be useful or purchase a gift card. I don't find it that complicated of a situation, especially if having a baby is not supposed to be on your radar at the moment anyway.
Marriage counseling is awesome. DH and I have gone a few times. Since then, we have gotten so much better at talking to each other and being real partners. I highly recommend it, even if it is only for a few sessions. The benefits will still be there.
Is it just my imagination or is Julia masquerading as counter butter?And is there another MrsSept#s or am I hallucinating? It's been a rough few days. Someone give me some clarity!!! Also: I guess some things never change.
NEVAR!!! My butter in is its special spot in the fridge where it should be!!! When I want soft butter I put it in the micro on 30% power for 00:01:30
Well, the world's most sensitive Sally finally got through to the end of the thread, icaughtfire This will be a bit scattered, but I promise to be careful with my words and to not cross the line like I did a few days ago. I wanted to apologize again to y'all for that. I felt horrible for the rest of the weekend, and still do.
Usually if there is a registry and all of the gifts are over my price range, I buy simple, common sense items that I know will be useful or purchase a gift card. I don't find it that complicated of a situation, especially if having a baby is not supposed to be on your radar at the moment anyway.
Marriage counseling is awesome. DH and I have gone a few times. Since then, we have gotten so much better at talking to each other and being real partners. I highly recommend it, even if it is only for a few sessions. The benefits will still be there.
Is it just my imagination or is Julia masquerading as counterbutter? And is there another MrsSept#s or am I hallucinating? It's been a rough few days. Someone give me some clarity!!!
It means you are here watching everything we say. Or at least logging in on the regular to see what's going on. It's not like you get notifications on your phone or something.
Well, the world's most sensitive Sally finally got through to the end of the thread, icaughtfire This will be a bit scattered, but I promise to be careful with my words and to not cross the line like I did a few days ago. I wanted to apologize again to y'all for that. I felt horrible for the rest of the weekend, and still do.
Usually if there is a registry and all of the gifts are over my price range, I buy simple, common sense items that I know will be useful or purchase a gift card. I don't find it that complicated of a situation, especially if having a baby is not supposed to be on your radar at the moment anyway.
Marriage counseling is awesome. DH and I have gone a few times. Since then, we have gotten so much better at talking to each other and being real partners. I highly recommend it, even if it is only for a few sessions. The benefits will still be there.
Is it just my imagination or is Julia masquerading as counterbutter? And is there another MrsSept#s or am I hallucinating? It's been a rough few days. Someone give me some clarity!!!
Well, the world's most sensitive Sally finally got through to the end of the thread, icaughtfire This will be a bit scattered, but I promise to be careful with my words and to not cross the line like I did a few days ago. I wanted to apologize again to y'all for that. I felt horrible for the rest of the weekend, and still do.
Usually if there is a registry and all of the gifts are over my price range, I buy simple, common sense items that I know will be useful or purchase a gift card. I don't find it that complicated of a situation, especially if having a baby is not supposed to be on your radar at the moment anyway.
Marriage counseling is awesome. DH and I have gone a few times. Since then, we have gotten so much better at talking to each other and being real partners. I highly recommend it, even if it is only for a few sessions. The benefits will still be there.
Is it just my imagination or is Julia masquerading as counterbutter? And is there another MrsSept#s or am I hallucinating? It's been a rough few days. Someone give me some clarity!!!
Also: I guess some things never change.
Pretty sure juliayadda is #fridgebutter #refrigerateallthings
Oh good! Because I refrigerate all things too! I can't believe I missed that convo.
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