WWYD (bfp)?

[lifesaverz]

My apologies, honestly.

[shemarie82]

You don't want to make an announcement, but you are in fact announcing it...

ETA: Congrats though

[notagoddess]

This post is not appropriate here. Just go on to your BMB.

[summerdonna]

I would have asked this on a BMB.

[Deleted]

Aug 11, 2015 6:26:02 GMT -5 lifesaverz said:

Hello, so I know I haven't been around here very long yet, so I don't want to make this an announcement or anything, but it's just after 4am & I just got a bfp & am freaking out! I did NOT expect it to happen so quickly for us this time since last time it took 8 months & my cycles were just so crazy & long back then. Anyway my question is should I tell DH right away when he wakes up, or attempt the agony of waiting all day to tell him in a cool way when he gets home from work? (Like writing big sister on DD's shirt or something). Last time I pretty much just came out of the bathroom & blurted it out. I just don't know if I can wait all day, although doing something cooler would be fun. WWYD? TIA!

Also just want to say how I've enjoyed being with this community, even if for just a short time.

First, you should fuck off. Then you should fuck off a little more. Oh, and fuck off.

[summerdonna]

Ah and a DD. Too bad you were quoted.

[Deleted]

Aug 11, 2015 6:35:18 GMT -5 summerdonna said:

Ah and a DD. Too bad you were quoted.

I had a feeling it was coming.

[lifesaverz]

Aug 11, 2015 6:33:49 GMT -5 @led said:

Aug 11, 2015 6:26:02 GMT -5 lifesaverz said:

Hello, so I know I haven't been around here very long yet, so I don't want to make this an announcement or anything, but it's just after 4am & I just got a bfp & am freaking out! I did NOT expect it to happen so quickly for us this time since last time it took 8 months & my cycles were just so crazy & long back then. Anyway my question is should I tell DH right away when he wakes up, or attempt the agony of waiting all day to tell him in a cool way when he gets home from work? (Like writing big sister on DD's shirt or something). Last time I pretty much just came out of the bathroom & blurted it out. I just don't know if I can wait all day, although doing something cooler would be fun. WWYD? TIA!

Also just want to say how I've enjoyed being with this community, even if for just a short time.

First, you should fuck off. Then you should fuck off a little more. Oh, and fuck off.

Please accept my apology. I have PCOS & know how it is to struggle & did honestly not mean to hurt anyone. Also because of my experiences I'm always rooting so hard for those who I know are trying. And I really have participated & enjoyed getting to know people when I was here. Honestly I'm sorry.

[lifesaverz]

Aug 11, 2015 6:35:18 GMT -5 summerdonna said:

Ah and a DD. Too bad you were quoted.

It's not because I'm embarrassed or anything but because if this was immediately read as hurtful then I don't want to hurt anyone else. I honestly have good intentions & do care about people's feelings here, & will move on now.

[mugster]

Aug 11, 2015 6:39:43 GMT -5 lifesaverz said:

Aug 11, 2015 6:33:49 GMT -5 @led said:

First, you should fuck off. Then you should fuck off a little more. Oh, and fuck off.

Please accept my apology. I have PCOS & know how it is to struggle & did honestly not mean to hurt anyone. Also because of my experiences I'm always rooting so hard for those who I know are trying. And I really have participated & enjoyed getting to know people when I was here. Honestly I'm sorry.

Nope, eight months is not struggling. You have no idea.

[Deleted]

Aug 11, 2015 6:39:43 GMT -5 lifesaverz said:

Aug 11, 2015 6:33:49 GMT -5 @led said:

First, you should fuck off. Then you should fuck off a little more. Oh, and fuck off.

Please accept my apology. I have PCOS & know how it is to struggle & did honestly not mean to hurt anyone. Also because of my experiences I'm always rooting so hard for those who I know are trying. And I really have participated & enjoyed getting to know people when I was here. Honestly I'm sorry.

Please, tell me about your eight month struggle. How hard was it to get pregnant in a totally normal amount of time and end up with a take home baby? Does the averageness of your experience haunt you? 

And you've had 15 posts outside of this thread. And some of those were from another thread you started. 15. 

[mrsjene]

Aug 11, 2015 6:33:49 GMT -5 @led said:

Aug 11, 2015 6:26:02 GMT -5 lifesaverz said:

Hello, so I know I haven't been around here very long yet, so I don't want to make this an announcement or anything, but it's just after 4am & I just got a bfp & am freaking out! I did NOT expect it to happen so quickly for us this time since last time it took 8 months & my cycles were just so crazy & long back then. Anyway my question is should I tell DH right away when he wakes up, or attempt the agony of waiting all day to tell him in a cool way when he gets home from work? (Like writing big sister on DD's shirt or something). Last time I pretty much just came out of the bathroom & blurted it out. I just don't know if I can wait all day, although doing something cooler would be fun. WWYD? TIA!

Also just want to say how I've enjoyed being with this community, even if for just a short time.

First, you should fuck off. Then you should fuck off a little more. Oh, and fuck off.

Thank you for quoting this, @led.

And to second the earlier sentiment... A whole eight months of "struggling" huh?

And I don't understand how you don't want to make an announcement, but you DO make an announcement.

And...and...it's too early for this shit.

[lifesaverz]

Aug 11, 2015 6:42:37 GMT -5 mugster said:

Aug 11, 2015 6:39:43 GMT -5 lifesaverz said:

Please accept my apology. I have PCOS & know how it is to struggle & did honestly not mean to hurt anyone. Also because of my experiences I'm always rooting so hard for those who I know are trying. And I really have participated & enjoyed getting to know people when I was here. Honestly I'm sorry.

Nope, eight months is not struggling. You have no idea.

Because of my situation & diagnosis/lack of cycles I was scheduled to see an RE the month after I turned out to get a BFP. I know 8 months is not bad at all, but also it was not an 8 months of normal trying, which is why it felt like a struggle. I have the utmost respect for those who have true trouble with TTC & I don't pretend to know how painful & difficult that is.

[Deleted]

Aug 11, 2015 6:49:08 GMT -5 lifesaverz said:

Aug 11, 2015 6:42:37 GMT -5 mugster said:

Nope, eight months is not struggling. You have no idea.

Because of my situation & diagnosis/lack of cycles I was scheduled to see an RE the month after I turned out to get a BFP. I know 8 months is not bad at all, but also it was not an 8 months of normal trying, which is why it felt like a struggle. I have the utmost respect for those who have true trouble with TTC & I don't pretend to know how painful & difficult that is.

Seriously, go fuck yourself. 

[summerdonna]

Aug 11, 2015 6:42:20 GMT -5 lifesaverz said:

Aug 11, 2015 6:35:18 GMT -5 summerdonna said:

Ah and a DD. Too bad you were quoted.

It's not because I'm embarrassed or anything but because if this was immediately read as hurtful then I don't want to hurt anyone else. I honestly have good intentions & do care about people's feelings here, & will move on now.

I don't get why you thought this was appropriate here. We don't know you but thanks for rubbing it in how easy it was for you when there are a lot of ladies struggling on this board.

[kayladawn91]

Please stop posting in this thread, as you're only making things worse. Move on and ask your question in a more appropriate place. Just leave the people here alone.

[mosdub]

Good morning, GKU.

[icaughtfire]

Did this no avatar fucking noob just claim she totally hangs here all the time & then posted "I'm not announcing that I'm pregnant, but I just got a BFP. How should I tell my husband?"

Are you fucking stupid? That's the only way I can see that you thought this was fucking appropriate.

[frankenboom]

Aug 11, 2015 6:33:49 GMT -5 @led said:

Aug 11, 2015 6:26:02 GMT -5 lifesaverz said:

Hello, so I know I haven't been around here very long yet, so I don't want to make this an announcement or anything, but it's just after 4am & I just got a bfp & am freaking out! I did NOT expect it to happen so quickly for us this time since last time it took 8 months & my cycles were just so crazy & long back then. Anyway my question is should I tell DH right away when he wakes up, or attempt the agony of waiting all day to tell him in a cool way when he gets home from work? (Like writing big sister on DD's shirt or something). Last time I pretty much just came out of the bathroom & blurted it out. I just don't know if I can wait all day, although doing something cooler would be fun. WWYD? TIA!

Also just want to say how I've enjoyed being with this community, even if for just a short time.

First, you should fuck off. Then you should fuck off a little more. Oh, and fuck off.

This is quite possibly my favorite response you've ever given. Well done, LE.

[lifesaverz]

Aug 11, 2015 7:03:50 GMT -5 danib said:

lifesaverz you screwed up, and you appologized. You need to just leave it at that as your explainations/excuses are further offending/hurting people. The only appropriate response from a drive-by BFP is "I'm sorry", no "buts".

You're right, I'm sorry & am leaving now.

[icaughtfire]

Aug 11, 2015 7:14:15 GMT -5 lifesaverz said:

Aug 11, 2015 7:03:50 GMT -5 danib said:

lifesaverz you screwed up, and you appologized. You need to just leave it at that as your explainations/excuses are further offending/hurting people. The only appropriate response from a drive-by BFP is "I'm sorry", no "buts".

You're right, I'm sorry & am leaving now.

Last word syndrome is strong.

#BYEFELECIA

[frankenboom]

Aug 11, 2015 7:14:15 GMT -5 lifesaverz said:

Aug 11, 2015 7:03:50 GMT -5 danib said:

lifesaverz you screwed up, and you appologized. You need to just leave it at that as your explainations/excuses are further offending/hurting people. The only appropriate response from a drive-by BFP is "I'm sorry", no "buts".

You're right, I'm sorry & am leaving now.

Seriously stop talking forever.

[youdontsay]

I don't need this shit right now.

[rablissful]

[mrsjene]

Aug 11, 2015 7:56:18 GMT -5 ugaqueencity said:

Aug 11, 2015 6:26:02 GMT -5 lifesaverz said:

My apologies, honestly.

Wait, you were smart enough to ask a question about triphasic charts in Parenting 7 hours ago, but thought GKU would be the best place to ask about how to tell your husband you're pregnant? What the actual fuck, how does that make any sense?

Um, yea. I'm sure a lot of those women know what it's like to tell their SOs that they're pregnant. Good question for over there.

[rablissful]

Aug 11, 2015 8:20:23 GMT -5 @ismellbooks said:

Yikes.

I can't speak for anyone else there, but as for me, I hope she doesn't join A16.

[shadesofgold]

Aug 11, 2015 6:47:37 GMT -5 mrsjene said:

Aug 11, 2015 6:33:49 GMT -5 @led said:

First, you should fuck off. Then you should fuck off a little more. Oh, and fuck off.

Thank you for quoting this, @led.

And to second the earlier sentiment... A whole eight months of "struggling" huh?

And I don't understand how you don't want to make an announcement, but you DO make an announcement.

And...and...it's too early for this shit.

To OP: Nope. Bye.



To PP: Can we not put scare quotes around people's feelings and mock whether or not they have struggled? OP fucked up in trying to justify her post, but choosing to shut down someone's experience because you've been trying longer than they have? Pain Olympics. 

Edit: spelling

[icaughtfire]

That awkward moment when grads jump in saying stupid shit...

[icaughtfire]

Aug 11, 2015 8:35:41 GMT -5 @ismellbooks said:

Aug 11, 2015 8:34:38 GMT -5 icaughtfire said:

That awkward moment when grads jump in saying stupid shit...

Yeah, I get that. I'm sorry. I'm going away now.

[frankenboom]

Aug 11, 2015 8:30:05 GMT -5 shadesofgold said:

Aug 11, 2015 6:47:37 GMT -5 mrsjene said:

Thank you for quoting this, @led.

And to second the earlier sentiment... A whole eight months of "struggling" huh?

And I don't understand how you don't want to make an announcement, but you DO make an announcement.

And...and...it's too early for this shit.

To OP: Nope. Bye.



To PP: Can we not put scare quotes around people's feelings and mock whether or not they have struggled? OP fucked up in trying to justify her post, but choosing to shut down someone's experience because you've been trying longer than they have? Pain Olympics. 

Edit: spelling

Ok but seriously in what universe have we ever let anyone get away with saying trying for 8 months is struggling?

ETA - and actually what the OP said was that she didn't expect it to happen so quickly this time since LAST TIME it took 8 months. So, really, this is the one you want to WK?