majwv8, I'm so sorry. I hope that everyone gets the comfort they need.
Me too. I'm super awkward in situations like this too, so I hope I can be there for my students. We already have emails about extra counselors that will be on campus.
Post by huckleberry08 on Aug 30, 2015 20:14:21 GMT -5
thatblondie I would be really tempted to at least call the out of network doc in the morning to explain the situation and get information about out of pocket cost.
Also, I don't know if it's just me, but lately I've really been wanting our board to go private. I feel like we all have a lot going on and I know I'd post even more if I felt comfortable. I have proposed this in the past and I got shot down big time, but just saying...
I 100% agree. I don't think anyone is going to randomly find us and want to join in at this point since our kids are over two.
Hugs and feel better vibes to those that need them. Nut punches to a select few husband.
Toddler rearing is a total mind fuck. No two toddlers are the same. Lilly is 50% awesome 50% tiny terrorist. I love seeing the growth. Even the tantrums are manageable most of the time. But it's important to have those breaks from each other. I would be the worst version of myself if Lilly and I were together constantly. I like her to have time to miss me, and visa versa.
Post by everydayimshuffling on Aug 30, 2015 20:17:29 GMT -5
lizzybizzy Wow, that must have been really really tough for all of you. SAH parenting is seriously mentally tough and I know that I'm definitely not cut out for it. I'm so glad your H is on the right track now.
Post by everydayimshuffling on Aug 30, 2015 20:23:12 GMT -5
thatblondie I'm sorry your H is just making an already stressful situation more stressful. Glad to hear he came around but doesn't it just drive you batty when it has to be like pulling teeth? I know absolutely nothing about the U.S. healthcare system and networks, but I say get him in as soon as possible with the people you most trust if the cost is not prohibitive.
lizzybizzy, big hugs girl. While DH has never done the sahd gig (that's all me) he has done his fair share of abuse in the alcohol dept and we have had a lot of struggles along the way because of it. It can be a really dark place for both parties and I know It was so hard for me dealing with it because I didn't really ever want to talk to anyone irl about it. If you ever need to talk, please don't hesitate to send me a pm.
Also, I don't know if it's just me, but lately I've really been wanting our board to go private. I feel like we all have a lot going on and I know I'd post even more if I felt comfortable. I have proposed this in the past and I got shot down big time, but just saying...
I 100% agree. I don't think anyone is going to randomly find us and want to join in at this point since our kids are over two.
Post by nursemommy13 on Aug 30, 2015 20:41:29 GMT -5
That's tough lizzybizzy! I hope he continues on the right path.
I would also be tempted to go to the doctor that isn't in insurance thatblondie. Just because they seemed more concerned and they know about M. Your husband needs to get on board!
thatblondie I would be tempted to see the other Dr. Honestly I would have a hard time dealing with having to make sure Travis's Drs were in networks. That is not fair
thatblondie I'm glad he's coming around. Hopefully they will get you in soon. I'd be curious how much the other dr would cost but I'm sure it's and arm and a leg.
I'm all for a private board. There have been so many posts lately that are prefaced by "will DD" which I get, I end up not posting a lot of things. I was a proponent of the private board awhile back but don't remember who wasn't.
Here's a post I'll probably DD... When I was in high school, one of my cousins 2 years younger who also attended the school committed suicide. It was shocking and what made it worse was they announced it over the PA first thing in the morning before myself, my sister and 2 of our other cousins found out. The principal wasn't aware we were all family because the 4 of us had a different last name than my cousin who passed away. Some of the teachers came to her funeral mass and I was honestly touched by that gesture. It meant a lot to see them there.
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