I bought a LBD at a trunk sale a few weeks ago, with the intent of wearing to an evening work event for H. The dress was supposed to have a belt, but it didn't. I was unable to procure a belt prior to the event, and I hated the idea of cutting off the belt loops because I wanted to belt it when I found one, but I didn't want to go with empty belt loops, so I borrowed a belt from one of my big kid's dresses and wore that.
This sounds like some kind of humblebrag about how you can wear your kid's belt.
It was a long, silver, sparkly rbbon from a little girl's dress- the kind that is meant to be tied in an outrageously big bow. I got it around my waist, and tied it in a knot at the very end. There is no way I could wear a belt that actually fit my child's waist.
I know Larry happened. Please do not try to convince me otherwise. Please don't talk to me about coffee. I don't drink it. I don't caffeine. When I state my opinion, that is me chiming in on a topic. This is not me saying you suck at life if you do or feel differently. If I want to say that, I will. If I want to speak on you, I will.
Post by ugotstarbucked on Oct 23, 2015 9:09:32 GMT -5
I haven't showered since Tuesday.
I also have my postpartum checkup next Friday, which is DH's birthday. I'm dreading it because I have zero interest in putting out but feel guilty because it's his birthday and we haven't had sex since July. Like not even a pity hand job.
My DS's favorite song is "Primal Scream" by Motley Crue. He will beg for it the instant we get in the car. He sings along to it and plays drums on his lap.
Saying it out loud wasn't a step. It was her saying it out loud. OMG, did I miss a unicorn landing and farting rainbows on this board?!!!
You got this pobre and you know it. You just got back from vacay so you may be out of sorts at work and at home. Make a plan and take the steps. You are like next level smart. You know what you have to do you just need to do it!
I know Larry happened. Please do not try to convince me otherwise. Please don't talk to me about coffee. I don't drink it. I don't caffeine. When I state my opinion, that is me chiming in on a topic. This is not me saying you suck at life if you do or feel differently. If I want to say that, I will. If I want to speak on you, I will.
Post by mightythorgi on Oct 23, 2015 9:18:03 GMT -5
I kind of want to travel and explore Canada.
Other thread brought back memories of first reading Anne of Green Gables and how I wanted to do a tour of Eastern Canada. But really I want to see all of it.
Post by HelloSweetie on Oct 23, 2015 9:20:15 GMT -5
We over drafted our account this week (got paid today) but H still wants to go out to dinner tonight. He said "what's the point of working this hard if I don't get to do anything?"
In reality I've been overspending without realizing it.
We over drafted our account this week (got paid today) but H still wants to go out to dinner tonight. He said "what's the point of working this hard if I don't get to do anything?"
In reality I've been overspending without realizing it.
We are horrible about this. It doesn't help that our new low-tech credit union can't figure out how to do balance alert emails. When you're getting to a client-designated warning balance rather than actually over. It just always goes poof! And then we're like How are we adults?
Saying it out loud wasn't a step. It was her saying it out loud. OMG, did I miss a unicorn landing and farting rainbows on this board?!!!
You got this pobre and you know it. You just got back from vacay so you may be out of sorts at work and at home. Make a plan and take the steps. You are like next level smart. You know what you have to do you just need to do it!
I disagree. I didn't say it to be all unicorns and rainbows. Saying it out loud is openly admitting it, which can be the very first step to getting help.
(Not fighting with you about your opinion or telling you that your opinion is wrong, just disagreeing)
I really don't care. This thread sucks and I was trying to change it. KOKO
FTR, I don't see how making a statement about potential spiral nut not doing anything about it is taking a step, however again not that serious. It isn't like when someone says, I need help, I need to see someone, I called my doctor. But anyway, I am releasing this to the Lord.
I know Larry happened. Please do not try to convince me otherwise. Please don't talk to me about coffee. I don't drink it. I don't caffeine. When I state my opinion, that is me chiming in on a topic. This is not me saying you suck at life if you do or feel differently. If I want to say that, I will. If I want to speak on you, I will.
Other thread brought back memories of first reading Anne of Green Gables and how I wanted to do a tour of Eastern Canada. But really I want to see all of it.
A couple years ago, we were supposed to do a (free) cruise up New England and then down to Quebec City. It stopped at whatever the Green Gables town is. But it got canceled before I'd reread the books.
I also have my postpartum checkup next Friday, which is DH's birthday. I'm dreading it because I have zero interest in putting out but feel guilty because it's his birthday and we haven't had sex since July. Like not even a pity hand job.
Can you take a step and maybe just shower? You will feel so much better.
Have you been in the same underwear since then or are you one of those I change my undies but don't wash my ass people?
I know Larry happened. Please do not try to convince me otherwise. Please don't talk to me about coffee. I don't drink it. I don't caffeine. When I state my opinion, that is me chiming in on a topic. This is not me saying you suck at life if you do or feel differently. If I want to say that, I will. If I want to speak on you, I will.
I just have a major side-eye to any regular poster returning under a new screen name and not fully and plainly announcing "this is XYZ and this is my new screen name".
I know Larry happened. Please do not try to convince me otherwise. Please don't talk to me about coffee. I don't drink it. I don't caffeine. When I state my opinion, that is me chiming in on a topic. This is not me saying you suck at life if you do or feel differently. If I want to say that, I will. If I want to speak on you, I will.
Post by allthedrinks on Oct 23, 2015 9:30:55 GMT -5
My boss is retiring next month so I took a few days off to get things done around the house before the shit hits the fan when I take her position. Confession. Am currently sitting in my car in the Target parking lot, drinking a latte and making plans for day drinking with some girlfriends. Getting NONE of my to do list accomplished.
I know Larry happened. Please do not try to convince me otherwise. Please don't talk to me about coffee. I don't drink it. I don't caffeine. When I state my opinion, that is me chiming in on a topic. This is not me saying you suck at life if you do or feel differently. If I want to say that, I will. If I want to speak on you, I will.
I guess I don't see how you overspend and don't know it? I think you do know it but you are pushing forward and mentally blocking the other part out.
In our case it's because we have a joint account and don't check it every day. Or tell each other every time we buy something. So I know there's enough for me to get groceries and DH knows there's enough for him to fill up the car but there isn't enough for us to do both but that's what happens.
I also have my postpartum checkup next Friday, which is DH's birthday. I'm dreading it because I have zero interest in putting out but feel guilty because it's his birthday and we haven't had sex since July. Like not even a pity hand job.
Can you take a step and maybe just shower? You will feel so much better.
Have you been in the same underwear since then or are you one of those I change my undies but don't wash my ass people?
You don't have to answer. I won't be offended.
I would love to shower. I'm just not comfortable leaving the baby unattended while I do it and DH hasn't been very available to take her.
I have changed my underwear since Tuesday. So clean unders but dirty bum I guess.
We over drafted our account this week (got paid today) but H still wants to go out to dinner tonight. He said "what's the point of working this hard if I don't get to do anything?"
In reality I've been overspending without realizing it.
babywearing
shhhhh. Mostly that was funded through selling what I already had. Mostly.
I know Larry happened. Please do not try to convince me otherwise. Please don't talk to me about coffee. I don't drink it. I don't caffeine. When I state my opinion, that is me chiming in on a topic. This is not me saying you suck at life if you do or feel differently. If I want to say that, I will. If I want to speak on you, I will.
Can you take a step and maybe just shower? You will feel so much better.
Have you been in the same underwear since then or are you one of those I change my undies but don't wash my ass people?
You don't have to answer. I won't be offended.
I would love to shower. I'm just not comfortable leaving the baby unattended while I do it and DH hasn't been very available to take her.
I have changed my underwear since Tuesday. So clean unders but dirty bum I guess.
Stuck in box. Do you have a little baby cradle/chair thing you can pull into the bathroom? Or do it while she naps? If you know she's dry, fed, and safe, then you're okay to shower. She might cry/be upset but you have to learn to be okay with that at least for long enough to take care of your basic hygiene.
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