Post by coffeequeen14 on Jan 10, 2016 16:53:10 GMT -5
I feel like death. Took the kids to the children's museum. Too much moving. I just want to curl up on the couch for the rest of the day.
I can't eat anything healthy. I've had popcorn, ice cream and a bag of pea crisps. The healthy foods I made all made me gag. DH says it's probably because my body is telling me to gain weight. I'm not so convinced.
I just ate a hot pocket. It was amazing. But food poisoning makes me so afraid to eat anything.
What did they do for you and your hubby at the ER? My DH and I are debating going but I think it would be paying $300 for fluids replacement and that's it. Keep in mind I'm not pregnant anymore so it's not as pressing but we feel like we are dying so I just wanted an idea.
I just ate a hot pocket. It was amazing. But food poisoning makes me so afraid to eat anything.
What did they do for you and your hubby at the ER? My DH and I are debating going but I think it would be paying $300 for fluids replacement and that's it. Keep in mind I'm not pregnant anymore so it's not as pressing but we feel like we are dying so I just wanted an idea.
Basically just replacing fluids. We each got two bags and they gave us anti-nausea meds. I also had an ultrasound. If you're not really vomiting anymore, I would skip it.
There's just not much more they can do other than let it run its course.
I just ate a hot pocket. It was amazing. But food poisoning makes me so afraid to eat anything.
What did they do for you and your hubby at the ER? My DH and I are debating going but I think it would be paying $300 for fluids replacement and that's it. Keep in mind I'm not pregnant anymore so it's not as pressing but we feel like we are dying so I just wanted an idea.
Not sure how your insurance works but if you have a set lower copay for an urgernt care center, you might want to look into that. The one near me gave me fluids, pain, and anti nausea meds through IV last year when I was super sick.
What did they do for you and your hubby at the ER? My DH and I are debating going but I think it would be paying $300 for fluids replacement and that's it. Keep in mind I'm not pregnant anymore so it's not as pressing but we feel like we are dying so I just wanted an idea.
Not sure how your insurance works but if you have a set lower copay for an urgernt care center, you might want to look into that. The one near me gave me fluids, pain, and anti nausea meds through IV last year when I was super sick.
Thank I found one that does it and we are headed there now
Our basement is just about done! H finished laying tile today and we were able to rearrange. We've had everything crammed in the laundry room lately which has been so annoying. It's nice to be organized again! DD has her kitchen set up and a whole play area. She loved it today!
Post by shehulk723 on Jan 10, 2016 18:34:13 GMT -5
Over the last two days my h and I have had two massive fights. And he's been yelling, hurling insults and calling names like an immature jerk. Apparently I'm a "fucking retard" "mentally unstable" and "crazy" (because I don't agree with him and he doesn't get logic) today I took a shower and I had to rush through it because DD was screaming and crying. I come out to find him playing video games and ignoring her! I asked him how he could be so cruel and he flipped out on me. Apparently I'm just not supposed to take showers now if she's going to cry and no one can soothe her but me. So much bs. I'm so over it. In the almost 12 months she's been alive he has never helped me with middle of the night wake ups once, which still happen 4-10 times a night for us. Then he refuses to get up when she gets up in the morning, forcing me to get up and take care of her while he sleeps in. He claims I don't do enough, but in the last 3 weeks. I've worked just as many days as him plus doing 95% of the parenting and I'm freaking pregnant and have a brain injury from a car accident! I just can't do this any more. My DD is more mature than he is damn. And now I'm having this stabbing chest pain that my nurse friends said is probably stress induced. I don't deserve this.
Post by redthestral13 on Jan 10, 2016 19:00:32 GMT -5
Can we please just get to second tri already??
I feel awful and you ladies feel awful and I feel awful you feel awful!! And feeling awful is awful!
Anyway.
I have been keeping myself busy all weekend cleaning. Does anyone else feel "nest-y"? I sometimes get these waves of intense desire to sanitize everything in sight. If I'm not puking I usually go with it because I feel so lazy and tired all of the time otherwise.
Cleaning has kept me from obsessing over my ultrasound appointment tomorrow morning....well, sort of, a little bit, not really, ok I lied, I'm obsessing.
Post by bocaburger on Jan 10, 2016 19:02:45 GMT -5
shehulk723 I'm so sorry, that sounds really stressful and unfair. Have you and YH ever considered counseling? It might help him to see your side more if you can explain it in a controlled environment with a mediator. H and I went to counseling last year and although our therapist was actually terrible it was really helpful to have that time set aside for calmly expressing our feelings.
Not sure how your insurance works but if you have a set lower copay for an urgernt care center, you might want to look into that. The one near me gave me fluids, pain, and anti nausea meds through IV last year when I was super sick.
Thank I found one that does it and we are headed there now
I am also feeling nest-y but unfortunately not energetic enough to do anything about it. I've been working on unpacking my suitcase from last week all day because I keep taking breaks...
Post by redthestral13 on Jan 10, 2016 19:05:51 GMT -5
shehulk723 that sounds super shitty I'm sorry YH would say such nasty things to you and ignore your DD you absolutely deserve help with her so you can shower or whatever else you need to do. Sorry you're going through this crap.
Post by coffeequeen14 on Jan 10, 2016 19:07:20 GMT -5
DH made me a bubble bath and put on NCIS for me on the iPad. My stomach is still a mess but the rest of my body and more importantly mentally I'm feeling awesome!
shehulk723 I'm so sorry, that sounds really stressful and unfair. Have you and YH ever considered counseling? It might help him to see your side more if you can explain it in a controlled environment with a mediator. H and I went to counseling last year and although our therapist was actually terrible it was really helpful to have that time set aside for calmly expressing our feelings.
Was typing almost the same exact thing and then read this.
That name calling is not right under any circumstances and you aren't asking for a lot, just asking for him to do his part. Counseling is at least worth a shot. Sometimes they need to hear it from an external third party.
Post by shehulk723 on Jan 10, 2016 19:10:57 GMT -5
Thank you all. After the first fight I went to my parents house for a while with DD. Unfortunately, my parents are in the middle of an UGLY divorce but still living in the same house so it's not exactly a place to de-stress. I'd just be in the middle of more fighting.
shehulk723 I'm so sorry, that sounds really stressful and unfair. Have you and YH ever considered counseling? It might help him to see your side more if you can explain it in a controlled environment with a mediator. H and I went to counseling last year and although our therapist was actually terrible it was really helpful to have that time set aside for calmly expressing our feelings.
This. My DH had a hard time adjusting to parenthood and what it required him to give up. he had counseling for a separate issue but the counselor ended up helping tremendously with it.
shehulk723 I know you know this, but I have to say it anyway. You don't deserve to be called those things. It's not okay. Nobody has the right to say those things to you. I'm sorry that happened. You are too awesome and work too hard to deal with that crap. I hope you can find a way to take a little break to destress. :-(
Post by juliayadda on Jan 10, 2016 19:42:04 GMT -5
shehulk723, That sucks so bad. I hope you can work through this. Has his behaviour changed since DD came along? Hopefully he just needs a swift kick in the grow up alreadys.
I had a lot of trouble with my first husband in this manner. We did counselling but unfortunately it took a divorce for him to step up as a dad.
I hope truly you can work through this. Especially with what your parents are going through.
shehulk723, That sucks so bad. I hope you can work through this. Has his behaviour changed since DD came along? Hopefully he just needs a swift kick in the grow up alreadys.
I had a lot of trouble with my first husband in this manner. We did counselling but unfortunately it took a divorce for him to step up as a dad.
I hope truly you can work through this. Especially with what your parents are going through.
He actually just changed drastically over the last 3 months. He's not the man I married. I don't know what going on. The bad fight we got into about 3 months ago, he started throwing stuff and I was just like nope, we're out and I left. He's turned into such an angry person and IDK why.
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