Monday Bitchfest 2/2/15

[orangepickle]

I'm awake and working already to do the work my assistant should have done last week, but is instead off on vacation today in France (which she didn't tell me about until last Tuesday)... my bed is calling me to come back already.

[orangepickle]

Feb 2, 2015 4:27:47 GMT -5 @gfj48 said:

DH gave me his sickness.

[beebe918]

I'm having some anxiety about going to work this morning. My boss is being a jerk about my maternity leave. He literally has not spoken to me since he found out I was taking 12 weeks. It makes the environment very negative.

[adetheridge]

1. I can't breathe out of my right nostril-afrin and vicks are not even touching it. -_-
2. I can't sleep, but for the hour or so that I did get to sleep I wake up in sheer terror and swear I see someone in the closet. Meanwhile my DF is sleeping perfectly and our dog begins growling-I wake up to noticing we left the front door unlocked, luckily we live where no one messes with us. But still scary.
3. It's Monday and where I have to work DF has the day off. -_-

[adetheridge]

Feb 2, 2015 7:31:37 GMT -5 beebe918 said:

I'm having some anxiety about going to work this morning. My boss is being a jerk about my maternity leave. He literally has not spoken to me since he found out I was taking 12 weeks. It makes the environment very negative.

That is horrible. Grow up and deal with it. Hope things get better for you!!!

[brittneysandra]

I actually want to get snowed in today.
I have a horrible stomach ache and don't want to leave, and would feel much better about it if I couldn't drive anyways...
Supposed to get like 4-8inches.. Looks pretty bad out there

[brittneysandra]

@kendra1992 Sorry to hear that, The same kind of things happen with my grandma all the time with her doctor, its so frustrating!.. Hope everything turns out okay!

[allisong87]

@kendra1992 - I hope she gets better soon!!

[jesskr3]

I don't want to sound like an ungrateful bitch, but I am going to. After my break up with my kids dad, I had no money to move away from him, so my parents offered me my old room back. This, is am extremely grateful for. My bitch is that I don't want to share a room with my 18 month old, I don't want to always take cold showers cause so many people live here. I don't want to hear everyone's opinion on my daughters!!! Ughhhh! Okay, rant over.

[jesskr3]

Feb 2, 2015 7:31:37 GMT -5 beebe918 said:

I'm having some anxiety about going to work this morning. My boss is being a jerk about my maternity leave. He literally has not spoken to me since he found out I was taking 12 weeks. It makes the environment very negative.

What a butthole.

[Deleted]

Feb 2, 2015 8:01:28 GMT -5 @kendra1992 said:

My grandma is getting admitted to the hospital after two weeks of telling her doctor something isn't right. They found an infection after an MRI my mom demanded be ordered. I could throat punch her doctor.

Hope she get well soon. Positive vibes! 

[Deleted]

Feb 2, 2015 8:31:24 GMT -5 jesskr3 said:

I don't want to sound like an ungrateful bitch, but I am going to. After my break up with my kids dad, I had no money to move away from him, so my parents offered me my old room back. This, is am extremely grateful for. My bitch is that I don't want to share a room with my 18 month old, I don't want to always take cold showers cause so many people live here. I don't want to hear everyone's opinion on my daughters!!! Ughhhh! Okay, rant over.

That's life. We all make sacrifices to get better. Think of the positive that out weighs the negative. 

[Deleted]

Feb 2, 2015 7:31:37 GMT -5 beebe918 said:

I'm having some anxiety about going to work this morning. My boss is being a jerk about my maternity leave. He literally has not spoken to me since he found out I was taking 12 weeks. It makes the environment very negative.

Why not approach him and set a meeting to talk about it. I can't work in a situation like that. I need to feel comfortable where ever I'm at. 

PS. He's being childish, that's all. 

[twaffle]

@kendra1992 I'm so sorry your grandma had a run in with a dumb doctor, but I'm glad that she will start getting the help she needs.

[twaffle]

I am so over feeling like shit everyday. Not only is DH being dumb, but this pregnancy is kicking my ass.

[amylee545]

I'm already sick of hearing and seeing everything about the Super Bowl. Even though I'm a pats fan and am very happy we won, it's over. Move on. Talk about something else for crying out loud.

[brittneysandra]

Feb 2, 2015 9:02:05 GMT -5 amylee545 said:

I'm already sick of hearing and seeing everything about the Super Bowl. Even though I'm a pats fan and am very happy we won, it's over. Move on. Talk about something else for crying out loud.

It hasn't even been 24 hours yet...

[veganontuesdays]

ALLLLLLLLL night long I had this reoccurring dream that I could not find the right size frame for my favorite nursery picture that we purchased. For some reason in my dream this was the most stressful thing that could have happened to me. I woke up really tired due to restless sleep because I couldn't find this stupid damn frame? WTF?

[veganontuesdays]

Feb 2, 2015 8:47:11 GMT -5 beeorange said:

Feb 2, 2015 7:31:37 GMT -5 beebe918 said:

I'm having some anxiety about going to work this morning. My boss is being a jerk about my maternity leave. He literally has not spoken to me since he found out I was taking 12 weeks. It makes the environment very negative.

Wow, that is incredibly immature and unprofessional. He needs to grow up. 

THIS. Your boss sounds like a huge douche. 

[rocksforludo]

beebe918 He's being ridiculous but I agree that you need to set a meeting and talk about it. How are you supposed to do your job if your boss won't talk to you? If the conversation goes poorly, I would also try to document how things are going via email or with your HR person.

@kendra1992 I'm sorry about your grandma! Mine was in the hospital last week. She's been released and feeling better but the doctors still can't figure out what happened or what a solution might be. It's also tough because my grandparents live a few hours away from any family so it's like a game of telephone trying to get a clear idea of what the doctors said to them. I think my mom is going to go stay with them for awhile if things don't get better soon.

@allybells Oof, I'm with you especially if there are going to be 80+ people.

My bitch: it's Monday which means the cafe at my work isn't open so I can't buy a cardamom bun. I want.

[t1green]

@gfj48 I hope you feel better soon.

My bitch is that my boss was in Austria last week skiing and now he's back. Womp womp. At least he brought chocolates back with him.

[shmee]

There is so.much.snow and it just keeps coming. It seems like the whole city is home for a snow day except for me. And it's just supposed to keep snowing and snowing and snowing. I want to be home in my warm bed! At least my school was canceled tonight.

[Starbuck128]

I couldn't sleep because everything hurt too much. Would it be a bad idea to sleep in DS's bed? His mattress is new and soooooo comfy.

[veganontuesdays]

Feb 2, 2015 9:51:07 GMT -5 @tinyjoys said:

We ran into the mall on Saturday night & I got measured at motherhood. I went from a 42DDD to a 44G. Because bras weren't hard enough to find & expensive enough to begin with.

We got a crap ton of snow yesterday & into this morning. I got up when husband was coming in from snow blowing before work. I forgot to take my antinausea medication & just got super sick. Coffee, bagel & banana tasted much better going down.

I somehow tore the skin on the side of my left middle finger nail. It's swollen & hurts. I just got a ton of puss out of it & the swelling went down slightly, but it still hurts. Hopefully the neosporan & bandaid help.

I have still been putting off getting measured.... I started off at a 34DD and I just am NOT looking forward to the size they tell me I am. Blah. 

[staccajaye]

It's Monday and there's a fucking snow storm
And the heaters on the north side of our building arnt working, so all north side offices have no heat
MY OFFICE IS ON THE NORTH SIDE
If my boobs start leaking and then then forming icicles I will let you all know

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Feb 2, 2015 9:54:12 GMT -5 veganontuesdays said:

Feb 2, 2015 9:51:07 GMT -5 @tinyjoys said:

We ran into the mall on Saturday night & I got measured at motherhood. I went from a 42DDD to a 44G. Because bras weren't hard enough to find & expensive enough to begin with.

We got a crap ton of snow yesterday & into this morning. I got up when husband was coming in from snow blowing before work. I forgot to take my antinausea medication & just got super sick. Coffee, bagel & banana tasted much better going down.

I somehow tore the skin on the side of my left middle finger nail. It's swollen & hurts. I just got a ton of puss out of it & the swelling went down slightly, but it still hurts. Hopefully the neosporan & bandaid help.

I have still been putting off getting measured.... I started off at a 34DD and I just am NOT looking forward to the size they tell me I am. Blah. 

I def get you girls. The worst part is that they then tell you oh you're X size but you need a XX because you'll grow even bigger. 

Thanks. -_- 

[snapdragon]

So my kids (3 and 1.5) both have colds and it is making them so cranky. Getting DD1 to school today was a nightmare. We were up a half hour early and still ended up leaving the house late because literally everything ended up in a crying fit. Bathroom? FIT! Shoes? FIT! Breakfast? FIT! Hair? FIT! Sitting around kind of calm and then all of a sudden realizes there is snot in her nose? EPIC FIT! I believe this is all because she can't decide which she hates more: Having snot run down her face, or having me wipe her nose. For some reason, wiping her own nose is no longer on the table.

And DD2 has coughed so much that she lost her voice, and she breaks down into the saddest silent cry over literally everything, especially when DD1 starts crying.

[nurserachel22]

Feb 2, 2015 8:31:24 GMT -5 jesskr3 said:

I don't want to sound like an ungrateful bitch, but I am going to. After my break up with my kids dad, I had no money to move away from him, so my parents offered me my old room back. This, is am extremely grateful for. My bitch is that I don't want to share a room with my 18 month old, I don't want to always take cold showers cause so many people live here. I don't want to hear everyone's opinion on my daughters!!! Ughhhh! Okay, rant over.

I don't think you sound ungrateful. I think you're having normal human responses to a situation that Is unfortunate. The bad thing is, you do have to find a way to deal with it. Maybe try to get out often and do things that distract your mind. Surprisingly, working on crafts helps distract my mind.


My bitch is that I only slept maybe 4 hours and now I'm at work... With a random belly ache. At least I am getting paid for my time instead of sitting at home looking at the snow.

My other bitch is that my fiancé can't seem to understand why I don't want my baby shower at our house. Where do we have room for that many people?! Men just think totally different. I'm not having my baby shower in the garage.

[beebe918]

Feb 2, 2015 9:32:21 GMT -5 rocksforludo said:

beebe918 He's being ridiculous but I agree that you need to set a meeting and talk about it. How are you supposed to do your job if your boss won't talk to you? If the conversation goes poorly, I would also try to document how things are going via email or with your HR person.

@kendra1992 I'm sorry about your grandma! Mine was in the hospital last week. She's been released and feeling better but the doctors still can't figure out what happened or what a solution might be. It's also tough because my grandparents live a few hours away from any family so it's like a game of telephone trying to get a clear idea of what the doctors said to them. I think my mom is going to go stay with them for awhile if things don't get better soon.

@allybells Oof, I'm with you especially if there are going to be 80+ people.

My bitch: it's Monday which means the cafe at my work isn't open so I can't buy a cardamom bun. I want.

Thanks everyone.  My review was supposed to be 1/28 so I had hoped to talk some of this out but he delayed it indefinitely via email.  Was hoping he might come back from the weekend refreshed and things would be different, we'll see.  It if continues you're right I definitely need to speak to him.

[mlbrooks]

I am seriously getting frustrated with sleeping on my side or with a wedged pillow under my hip so I don't lay completely flat. My back is killing me from it and then my hip starts hurting. I need some relief... I feel the couch/recliner is about to become my bed for the next 3 months or so.