Since everyone else is confessing there was one poster who I just straight up ignored bc I was certain she was crazy. She's only been around a handful of times (and not at all lately) since Aug babies were born.
My person fits that description too....it is probably the same one.
Since everyone else is confessing there was one poster who I just straight up ignored bc I was certain she was crazy. She's only been around a handful of times (and not at all lately) since Aug babies were born.
My person fits that description too....it is probably the same one.
I have an inkling that we are all talking about the same person
Oof now I think it's me! I really do love you ladies for giving me this outlet on here and in FB so I hope it's not! I honestly don't know what I would have done w out your advice and this space to vent.
And now for an FFFC:
I told my SIL to do TD boards bc they're helpful and not TCF bc she also has an A15 baby and I wanted to be able to post about her/the family if I felt the need w out her seeing it.
ampaints +1 to the poster who has just always eaten crackers for me. And I could never really figure out why. Lots of posts in August and very little since then, and I wasn't sad.
And I agree RandomName we're probably all talking about the same person.
Oof now I think it's me! I really do love you ladies for giving me this outlet on here and in FB so I hope it's not! I honestly don't know what I would have done w out your advice and this space to vent.
And now for an FFFC:
I told my SIL to do TD boards bc they're helpful and not TCF bc she also has an A15 baby and I wanted to be able to post about her/the family if I felt the need w out her seeing it.
Definitely not you. But I really love your confession. You condemned someone to TD and Kate Young!
Oof now I think it's me! I really do love you ladies for giving me this outlet on here and in FB so I hope it's not! I honestly don't know what I would have done w out your advice and this space to vent.
And now for an FFFC:
I told my SIL to do TD boards bc they're helpful and not TCF bc she also has an A15 baby and I wanted to be able to post about her/the family if I felt the need w out her seeing it.
Definitely not you. But I really love your confession. You condemned someone to TD and Kate Young!
My bad for posting and running. DS1 pooped himself, DS2 got an owie, right as I'm trying to get DS3 to bed...then I forced myself to begin our taxes.
To clarify, I'm not in the fb group and have never been. The suspected crazy hasn't posted in this thread, and has been absent from TCF for a weekish. All my suspicions are based on her posts here.
Hope it isn't me! I popped in about a week ago... dun dun dun.
I dont like a half-assed call out. All it does is get people paranoid, and posting things like "I hope it's not me!" while they wait for confirmation that it isn't them. That's silly.
I'd rather not know whose "crazy" because I don't think anyone is crazy here or there. And if it's me that people think are crazy it's only going to hurt my feelings
+1 to this. I think I fit the description too? But I also think I'd be OK with being the crazy person because I know I'm not crazy (in a scary way).
ETA +another for always paranoid that I'm the post-it. It's funny that everyone else feels the same way.
That time folks that have mostly been on FB are checking back at TCF to see if they're the "crazy"...
FFFC: Currently doing this. ^^^
+1 I haven't been on here in forever, because my life has become insane. I only check in once in a while on Facebook, and only then because it's convenient to do so with the notifications I get on my phone. But, although my life is crazy I never thought I was. Now I'm questioning that.
So I actually have no idea who is in the Super Bowl. I'm so okay with this. I actually didn't know when it was until I suggested we have a family dinner then and was told no so SFIL can watch the game.
My mom was like isn't there a big game coming up??!
Damn you people. I must know who you are talking about!!! I need to know if my cray cray radar is working...
What drama for parenting?!
On my original bmb (June 12), there were 2 people that acted like they ran the place (Allison and Alicia - the mod). Long story short, Allison was complaining forever that she was on bed rest for her twins and her husband couldn't wrk so a bunch of people put money in for a housekeeper to come to her place (plus $500 extra). Alicia collected money.
Somehow (I think because they were on a Facebook group and someone googled her name) they found out the reason her husband couldn't work was because he was a pedophile and convicted sex offender. She defended him, turns out Alicia knew all along.
People were horrified they had donated to support him basically, and also given all of their personal info to them through the donating thing. Also that he had access to all of the pics and stuff on Facebook. It was so creepy and gross and weird.
I never contributed $ because I felt like she was a bully and got a bad vibe from her.
So I had a fffc yesterday and forgot to post it. I don't wear anything but sweatpants or yoga pants (or no pants) inside my house to the point where when I put on my jeans my dog immediately gets in her kennel because she knows I'm about to leave the house.
If we are all talking about the same person, it isn't any of you because that person is not in the fb group! Agree that the half assed call out isn't a good thing because it gets everyone (including myself) all paranoid. Sorry! But I really don't think the person I'm talking about is even around at all anymore.
Since everyone else is confessing there was one poster who I just straight up ignored bc I was certain she was crazy. She's only been around a handful of times (and not at all lately) since Aug babies were born.
Who? You can't just say these things and leave it like that!
I'm sorry, maybe I'm a dog with a bone here, but this was shitty to do. Greengirl, I like you, I really do. But if someone is "legit crazy" the last thing they'd probably appreciate or need is to be singled out in a confession. That's a little mean. Aside from that, all this confession has done is make people anxious and upset. Some people (yourself included) are working through PPD and PPA. Other women on here are just trying to get through the day, and they might need to vent on here for whatever reason...maybe because they don't have anyone irl to talk to.
Now some ladies are talking about removing themselves from the Facebook group or deleting people as friends because they're so uncomfortable. I'm sure that wasn't your intent but it's a reasonable outcome when you post something like that. Weak.
tmclawchick I might be wrong, but I believe the people who are talking about deleting on Facebook are doing so because of access to personal information, nothing to with this thread.
I'm sorry, maybe I'm a dog with a bone here, but this was shitty to do. Greengirl, I like you, I really do. But if someone is "legit crazy" the last thing they'd probably appreciate or need is to be singled out in a confession. That's a little mean. Aside from that, all this confession has done is make people anxious and upset. Some people (yourself included) are working through PPD and PPA. Other women on here are just trying to get through the day, and they might need to vent on here for whatever reason...maybe because they don't have anyone irl to talk to.
Now some ladies are talking about removing themselves from the Facebook group or deleting people as friends because they're so uncomfortable. I'm sure that wasn't your intent but it's a reasonable outcome when you post something like that. Weak.
I honestly feel the same. I was wanting to come back to tcf more (life has been crazy since I started teaching) but read this thread and my anxiety makes me think I could be the crazy. I feel like if someone wants to call another poster out, she should just do that instead of not saying who it is and making people wonder if it's them.
tmclawchick I might be wrong, but I believe the people who are talking about deleting on Facebook are doing so because of access to personal information, nothing to do with this thread.
I don't think anyone was worried who I was taking about, but in case they were it's anna87.
No, it was in direct response to the confession. People were saying that they were upset about it last night after reading the confession and considered deleting themselves.
tmclawchick I might be wrong, but I believe the people who are talking about deleting on Facebook are doing so because of access to personal information, nothing to do with this thread.
I don't think anyone was worried who I was taking about, but in case they were it's anna87.
joi922 no worries. You can tell where I spend my internet time! I do hate that anyone would feel that way though, I love all of you ladies with my one noted exception!
If the person was still around I wouldn't be so vague I'd call them out. They aren't around. So if you're wondering if it's you and you posted it isn't. My not liking a poster has nothing to do with occasionally venting or aw-ing; we all do that sometimes. Also I'd go as far to say if this poster were still around she'd be the only one who didn't think it was her.
As someone who did delete from FB is had nothing to do with this thread. Nothing to do with the person who creeped me out. It was 100% related to privacy and keeping my personal information off the interwebs.
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