If you like someone so much and want them to know that they come across as a bit whiny, a PM would suffice.
I mean you're making this something it isn't but ok.
I have never felt the need to PM someone to tell them my feelings about them and I'm not going to start now. Perhaps it could have been done more tactfully in the thread but a callout seemed necessary. Like I said. Maybe she doesn't give a fuck. Or maybe she doesn't realize it and now she will.
I thought the conversation earlier in the thread was helpful and needed to happen- I think it was good for everyone to air their grievances and come to what seemed an agreement about the tone of the board.
I thought some of the comments today- like the twiddling thumbs one- were a bit over the top and a little mean, but I can see where the frustration came in since CNF never came back to respond. Yesterday's comments were in no way "bullying" and I do think it's odd she never responded.
I think talk of harassment on the board is way, way, over-blowing the situation and creating more drama than we need.
I thought the conversation earlier in the thread was helpful and needed to happen- I think it was good for everyone to air their grievances and come to what seemed an agreement about the tone of the board.
I thought some of the comments today- like the twiddling thumbs one- were a bit over the top and a little mean, but I can see where the frustration came in since CNF never came back to respond. Yesterday's comments were in no way "bullying" and I do think it's odd she never responded.
I think talk of harassment on the board is way, way, over-blowing the situation and creating more drama than we need.
Whoa! Sorry guys, I did not mean to upset anyone. I also apologize for not responding sooner. I do 99% of my TCF on tapatalk and my notifications never work on here.
I didn't mean to upset anyone and I never even mentioned being tired having to do with my kid. I have a job where I'm on the road to work by 630am to get there on time so kid or not I'm up by 5am everyday as it is.
I didn't see my notifications and once I saw how long the thread got I didn't really have time to catch back up so I hadn't popped back in.
Whoa! Sorry guys, I did not mean to upset anyone. I also apologize for not responding sooner. I do 99% of my TCF on tapatalk and my notifications never work on here.
I didn't mean to upset anyone and I never even mentioned being tired having to do with my kid. I have a job where I'm on the road to work by 630am to get there on time so kid or not I'm up by 5am everyday as it is.
I didn't see my notifications and once I saw how long the thread got I didn't really have time to catch back up so I hadn't popped back in.
Whoa! Sorry guys, I did not mean to upset anyone. I also apologize for not responding sooner. I do 99% of my TCF on tapatalk and my notifications never work on here.
I didn't mean to upset anyone and I never even mentioned being tired having to do with my kid. I have a job where I'm on the road to work by 630am to get there on time so kid or not I'm up by 5am everyday as it is.
I didn't see my notifications and once I saw how long the thread got I didn't really have time to catch back up so I hadn't popped back in.
My kid is fussy today and H has to work today. I got very little sleep last night. DNW today to happen.
And I thought your were a teacher....I didn't know that you worked Sunday's.
You're right, I don't work Sunday. But my H works Sunday nights so I get up and let him sleep in on Sunday mornings.
And I didn't post the fussy thing in this thread.
There's a lot of reasons to be tired and in this particular thread I didn't mention specifics. I do work a job that I have to at by 7am, my kid was fussy, my husband works nights and I try to be considerate of his sleep too, the meds I take for PPD make me nauseous and have trouble sleeping, I'm training for an ironman. I have a lot going on right now.
I do apologize for anyone I upset. That was not my intention and I am sorry if I hurt anyone.
I will let you know though that I'm not going to be on much more tonight, so if more people tag me and I don't respond it's not because I'm ignoring anyone intentionally.
Plenty of people have said their piece and this is mine.
Again, I do apologize. I never meant to upset anyone and I'm sorry to those I did.
Post by ♪♫choppinbroccoli♫♪ on Feb 22, 2016 18:44:21 GMT -5
OMG, I know this is dragging on, but I want to add that I think part of the negative response also has to do with the five million re-intros we've had in the past, what, three days. I think there are just a lot of emotions in play.
I don't think anyone is right or wrong or whatever. Just an observation. It stings, it's still raw, but it will pass, I think, for the collective community.
Post by icaughtfire on Feb 22, 2016 19:54:52 GMT -5
::shrug:: I don't think stating your annoyances over another poster is bullying. If people agree & chime in, that's not harassment. Everyone isn't gonna get along 100% of the time.
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::shrug:: I don't think stating your annoyances over another poster is bullying. If people agree & chime in, that's not harassment. Everyone isn't gonna get along 100% of the time.
OMG, I know this is dragging on, but I want to add that I think part of the negative response also has to do with the five million re-intros we've had in the past, what, three days. I think there are just a lot of emotions in play.
I don't think anyone is right or wrong or whatever. Just an observation. It stings, it's still raw, but it will pass, I think, for the collective community.
In retrospect, it would have been a good idea to have a single "re-intro" thread.
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