I like where you are going with this but I feel like having some kind of order is always useful. Obviously HDBD works because we post the same thing there. I don't think the structure is needed as much here as it was on TB. I feel like people can most more threads here and we won't side-eye as quickly. On TB if there is no rhyme or reason the drive-bys turned the board into chaos.
I like a good mix. Individual posts and check ins. Some of the bigger things that are in randoms thread often get missed because I can't catch up on 10 pages deep when I check at 6 am.
I like the threads we have going.
I'm talking about when we had threads about TD then people came in to shame everyone for still talking about it.
Or people in the UO saying we shouldn't compliment people or call people out/talk about them.
Well, people are allowed to post whatever they want, but people are also allowed to dislike whatever kinds of posts they want. That's why it's an opinion. Some people like posts about TD, some people don't. You're still "allowed" to post about it, but some people aren't going to like it, and they're allowed to say so, and you can't change that.
I think everyone should get rid of their tickers from The Bump. Kinda weird to be all "F THE DUMP! But here's some free advertising for them"
This is something I can get behind! I mentioned this as well a while back when I changed my ticker and linked to where I got mine. Though I do think some people that haven't changed theirs are probably just lazy/forgetful (no shame in that!) vs keeping it to support TD.
I don't think there is a thing wrong with complimenting each other. I just think it can get redundant week after week to all gush about the same handful of people while others are feeling the need to justify why their picture isn't perfect. I don't know, maybe I'm not explaining that well.
This is something I can get behind! I mentioned this as well a while back when I changed my ticker and linked to where I got mine. Though I do think some people that haven't changed theirs are probably just lazy/forgetful (no shame in that!) vs keeping it to support TD.
Where can I get a different ticker?
Mine is from lilypie but babygaga has them too. I can't believe I actually just referred someone to baby gaga.
You forgot skirts and dresses. Always cover up your junk with skirts and dresses.
That reminds me of that Friend's episode where Phoebe was dating that jock who wouldn't wear underwear.
t1green - See red above. Mos. Def. Agree. Thanks for the addendum!
snapdragon - that girl on the plane? With her in-your-DH's-face-gray-hoohah-pants? No ma'am. Not cool. Leggings, while awesomely comfortable, are in my opinion, meant to be worn with bum/hoohah covering shirts/tops. DRAPE YOUR JUNK WITH YOUR TOP. I get the whole need to reach up from time to time, but geez...
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I think everyone should get rid of their tickers from The Bump. Kinda weird to be all "F THE DUMP! But here's some free advertising for them"
This is something I can get behind! I mentioned this as well a while back when I changed my ticker and linked to where I got mine. Though I do think some people that haven't changed theirs are probably just lazy/forgetful (no shame in that!) vs keeping it to support TD.
Ha, I'm neither. The Lilypie tickers and other tickers I've seen people use are fine, but NMS personally. TD one with the fruit is by far my favorite, with the way it looks. I'm not worried about free advertising here, somehow I don't think those here are going to see my ticker and go, "Hey! I should go check out that site!"
Maybe that should have been my flammable FFFC tomorrow.
I'm talking about when we had threads about TD then people came in to shame everyone for still talking about it.
Or people in the UO saying we shouldn't compliment people or call people out/talk about them.
Well, people are allowed to post whatever they want, but people are also allowed to dislike whatever kinds of posts they want. That's why it's an opinion. Some people like posts about TD, some people don't. You're still "allowed" to post about it, but some people aren't going to like it, and they're allowed to say so, and you can't change that.
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1. When AF is here, because that's just gross to not wear any then.
2. When I wear a dress/skirt.
I don't wear any pants tight enough to give me a camel toe and I don't go to the gym. Underwear are not comfortable to me, no matter what style and I got tired of pulling fabric out of my ass all day long.
Even during pregnancy? What about all the discharge? Do you just wash your pants every time you wear them? I'm a firm believer that pants are more comfortable after a few wears (without washing) so I can't really fathom this.
I don't understand why people wear underwear when they workout (in capris/workout leggings etc, NOT in just regular soccer shorts or what not) it is so much more comfortable to go commando
I wonder if PB has the ability to do their own tickers?
This is a fantastic idea! We could do the progression of the unicorn gestation. Like this week I think my unicorn's horn would be fully formed with all of the rings and at it's maximum pointiness.
1. When AF is here, because that's just gross to not wear any then.
2. When I wear a dress/skirt.
I don't wear any pants tight enough to give me a camel toe and I don't go to the gym. Underwear are not comfortable to me, no matter what style and I got tired of pulling fabric out of my ass all day long.
Aaahhhhhhhh not wearing underwear with a skirt is crazy! What if there is a strong wind? What if you get all leaky?? I guess maybe leaky is not your thing and you wear only tight skirts, but what about crossing your legs? What if you have to sit on the floor? What about going up stairs that are open on the bottom?? I can't even deal with this thought!
Post by veganontuesdays on Feb 5, 2015 15:51:37 GMT -5
Apparently I just don't care enough or I am lazy as fuck. I never worry about people posting pictures of their faces, whether they talk about TD, who called out who, if someone is concerned about their filthy mirror, the list goes ONNNNNNNNNNNNN. It's not that I don't have opinions on these things it's just I don't fucking care enough to wish it was "different". Meh. Maybe that's my UO.
1. When AF is here, because that's just gross to not wear any then.
2. When I wear a dress/skirt.
I don't wear any pants tight enough to give me a camel toe and I don't go to the gym. Underwear are not comfortable to me, no matter what style and I got tired of pulling fabric out of my ass all day long.
But... if your pants are not tight enough to give you camel toe... doesn't that mean they're loose enough to get caught up in your ass crack?
Well, people are allowed to post whatever they want, but people are also allowed to dislike whatever kinds of posts they want. That's why it's an opinion. Some people like posts about TD, some people don't. You're still "allowed" to post about it, but some people aren't going to like it, and they're allowed to say so, and you can't change that.
Right just like people can't change what people talk about.
I think we're basically at a stalemate on this one peeps. @gfj48, you be you and say whatever you like here or wherever. You've got my support there and it's totally your prerogative. I have definitely shared my own take a few times here and there on my personal preference for less-drama-more-substance, but that's me being me, which is also legit. We've all got opinions that vary and none of us should expect others to change as a result of something we say on a message board. It sounds like you're a little pissed based on the tone I'm implying from your original post....am I reading that wrong here?
Not sure I agree that anyone was shamed anywhere, but it's entirely possible I missed something since I have a hard time keeping up with the lengthier threads lately (stupid work).
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This is something I can get behind! I mentioned this as well a while back when I changed my ticker and linked to where I got mine. Though I do think some people that haven't changed theirs are probably just lazy/forgetful (no shame in that!) vs keeping it to support TD.
Ha, I'm neither. The Lilypie tickers and other tickers I've seen people use are fine, but NMS personally. TD one with the fruit is by far my favorite, with the way it looks. I'm not worried about free advertising here, somehow I don't think those here are going to see my ticker and go, "Hey! I should go check out that site!"
Maybe that should have been my flammable FFFC tomorrow.
Yup, I was going to say something similar. I like my fruit, I'm keeping it.
people, wear underwear. Trust. It's better for everyone involved.
How does my going commando have any impact on anyone else?
I am not going to the gym sweating my vagina off on the machines, I am not wearing pants that give me a camel toe, I'm not wearing skirts/dresses w/out underwear so there's no vag shots.
No one knows I'm going commando unless I tell them.
Haha! Well, we all know now!
I guess it doesn't have any impact on anyone if you wear underwear or not. I just can't get past the ickiness of not wearing any but that's just my opinion. To each their own.
Aaahhhhhhhh not wearing underwear with a skirt is crazy! What if there is a strong wind? What if you get all leaky?? I guess maybe leaky is not your thing and you wear only tight skirts, but what about crossing your legs? What if you have to sit on the floor? What about going up stairs that are open on the bottom?? I can't even deal with this thought!
Uh, I think you didn't read that right. I said I wear underwear when wearing a dress/skirt.
I think we're basically at a stalemate on this one peeps. @gfj48, you be you and say whatever you like here or wherever. You've got my support there and it's totally your prerogative. I have definitely shared my own take a few times here and there on my personal preference for less-drama-more-substance, but that's me being me, which is also legit. We've all got opinions that vary and none of us should expect others to change as a result of something we say on a message board. It sounds like you're a little pissed based on the tone I'm implying from your original post....am I reading that wrong here?
Not sure I agree that anyone was shamed anywhere, but it's entirely possible I missed something since I have a hard time keeping up with the lengthier threads lately (stupid work).
You definitely missed things then.
ETA - not pissed just stating my own UO that we don't need to be told how/what to post. It's clearly a UO since it comes up often!
I'm sure I did then (miss things I mean)...I hate it when that happens. The longer a thread gets before I get to it the more I am both intrigued and tired at the same time before I even open it. It's SO HARD to be me sometimes!
Props to you for putting that UO out there regardless. That's the name of the game, right? Rock on lady.
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Even during pregnancy? What about all the discharge? Do you just wash your pants every time you wear them? I'm a firm believer that pants are more comfortable after a few wears (without washing) so I can't really fathom this.
I don't have a lot of discharge, it's actually pretty dry down there...
I hate how people think WiFi is so important to have it everywhere! Especially the younger generation. I work for a charter bus company and I coordinate transportation needs for large groups. We do a lot of high school trips to places like Orlando and if the buses that have WiFi are sold out, the group coordinators throw a fit. Orlando is such a long way without WiFi(24 hour drive). I went on trips ten years ago to places in high school on buses like these and I survived without WiFi. I firmly believe that they will survive, too. Read a book, watch the movie the whole bus is watching, nap, talk to the other students; there are many options other than being connected to the internet.
I hate how people think WiFi is so important to have it everywhere! Especially the younger generation. I work for a charter bus company and I coordinate transportation needs for large groups. We do a lot of high school trips to places like Orlando and if the buses that have WiFi are sold out, the group coordinators throw a fit. Orlando is such a long way without WiFi(24 hour drive). I went on trips ten years ago to places in high school on buses like these and I survived without WiFi. I firmly believe that they will survive, too. Read a book, watch the movie the whole bus is watching, nap, talk to the other students; there are many options other than being connected to the internet.
Or more importantly, play grab-ass with the other sex! (The PG kind, not the get-you-pregnant kind I mean). Isn't that still the best part about long-distance field trips in middle/high school? No? Really?! Am I seriously THAT OLD?!?!
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ETA - not pissed just stating my own UO that we don't need to be told how/what to post. It's clearly a UO since it comes up often!
I'm sure I did then (miss things I mean)...I hate it when that happens. The longer a thread gets before I get to it the more I am both intrigued and tired at the same time before I even open it. It's SO HARD to be me sometimes!
Props to you for putting that UO out there regardless. That's the name of the game, right? Rock on lady.
Eh you might have missed the end where everyone was all, "Can we get over TD already and move on??" But I wouldn't call it shaming. That's a UO of mine, though: I think "shaming" has become a buzzword that's way overused/misused.
Apparently I just don't care enough or I am lazy as fuck. I never worry about people posting pictures of their faces, whether they talk about TD, who called out who, if someone is concerned about their filthy mirror, the list goes ONNNNNNNNNNNNN. It's not that I don't have opinions on these things it's just I don't fucking care enough to wish it was "different". Meh. Maybe that's my UO.
This is me. All the way. Probably my UO as well. I don't really give two shits about what anybody does on here.
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