They didn't specify but my assumption is that they're offering the cash to start whichever we choose. They also said they'd like to be able to continue contributing money to it over the years (I'm assuming again they mean give us the cash with the understanding it goes into whatever we decide on).
Mostly I'm a financial newbie. I thought I was doing good when we got our Roth IRAs a few years ago LOL
I would say it sounds like they want an account to contribute to. That would be either a regular account or a 529. The trust isn't anything they can contribute to regularly.
I was sort of wondering about that. I know zilch about trusts.
MH said we should pick a trust because "rich people always have trusts". He was mostly joking but I told him we need to research options. For example see if there is something other than a 529 that could be contributed to that would be a good option (like without restrictions on being used for educational purposes) and see if his parents are amiable to that.
DS (our little Clomid miracle) born Sept. 25, 2012 Baby #2 lost at 8w3d on March 4, 2015 (EDD Oct. 11, 2015) Baby #3 lost at 5w2d on April 16, 2015 (EDD Dec. 15, 2015) Baby #4 lost at 4w1d on May 20, 2015 (EDD Jan. 25, 2016) DS2 (our little rainbow miracle) born May 25, 2016
So sorry about the A/C westiemom! Silver lining - at least it's out now and not in July or August...? Hopefully you'll get it fixed now and it won't go out again for a lonnnnng time.
July or August would be pure hell!! My mom is home with the AC guy now working on it. FX!
Natural chemical pregnancy 8/2013 Clomid #1 and #2: BFN IVF 1 :0 to use IVF 2:4 great embryos after PGS testing. FET 1: BFP EDD 6/20/15 Chemical Pregnancy FET 2: BFP EDD 11/14/2015 MMC 9.5 weeks twins IVF #3: 2 fair embryos after PGS testing Surprise BFP during break cycle and DD born 4/2016
Natural chemical pregnancy 8/2013 Clomid #1 and #2: BFN IVF 1 :0 to use IVF 2:4 great embryos after PGS testing. FET 1: BFP EDD 6/20/15 Chemical Pregnancy FET 2: BFP EDD 11/14/2015 MMC 9.5 weeks twins IVF #3: 2 fair embryos after PGS testing Surprise BFP during break cycle and DD born 4/2016
ive been secretly wishing for diarrhea for several weeks..... But even now, I feel like it may just be my body screwing with me. So many false starts....smh
I've had some bowel distress today and now the area near my hips and back are hurting. My mom is like "omg baby tonight" I'm like um, probably not bc it's still April! I want May!
Ooooh so sorry for baby O westiemom. It's only 24 hours then it's done and you can move on. Thinking of you!!
teraiin T&P for your Dad. You have all been through so much this year!
I just had a glorious nap. Now I get kitty snuggles. Am I a bad person if I eat all my post-labor snack bag now? There's some good stuff in there and it's calling my name.
Just returned it. I think in my mind, I'm thinking normal hours Costco trip isn't worth it to return.. 15 mins commute each way, 10 mins to park, forever waiting in line, at least 3 near misses with bad drivers in the parking lot, etc.. Being able to do stuff in work hours is the best!
Ooooh so sorry for baby O westiemom. It's only 24 hours then it's done and you can move on. Thinking of you!!
teraiin T&P for your Dad. You have all been through so much this year!
I just had a glorious nap. Now I get kitty snuggles. Am I a bad person if I eat all my post-labor snack bag now? There's some good stuff in there and it's calling my name.
I broke into my post labor snack bag..... And had to restock it. Ridiculous.
I didn't even realize there was a new thread started lol ... I've prob been talking to myself in the other one. This new born business is time consuming
Randomly I noticed my belly button is pretty much gone. I sort of figured it would turn into an outie. But so far it's just getting stretched and smaller.
o2girl, ok I just rummaged through my bag and had a snack feast... oops. I guess we're going snack shopping tomorrow. I also really want popsicles. Raspberry sorbet popsicles. Now.
In other news I feel wicked groggy since my nap. You know when you wake up all warm and puffy/dehydrated and more tired than when you fell asleep? That's me. I'll try and hydrate and maybe check out a new movie - I think netflix just updated their stash. I am also wondering wth I'm going to do with myself if mat leave goes on for a long time with no baby... house is already gleaming and nursery is ready... I guess I planned to read a lot?
I just saw my prenatal nurse for the last time! Next time I see her she'll be here as my LC and I am having all kinds of emotions about that. I can't believe I'm getting so close!
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