I'm not into it, but DH occasionally watches it and it doesn't bother me. As long as it doesn't interfere in our relationship, he can do as he pleases.
Married 9/2013
35 years old
Endometriosis, dx by lap in 2002 & 2007
Off BCP 3/2014
TTGP since 6/2014
HSG 2/2014, Partially blocked right tube
CP 1/8/15
Here's the thing about porn and any other component of intimate behavior: It absolutely must be consensual.
Honesty and Consent are the bedrock of a healthy, fulfilling, respectful intimate relationship between partners. Ideally, there should be a thorough discussion of these issues before any long-term commitments are made. Unfortunately, the prudish conservative stance that is still preached in many circles discourages honesty and openness. Tons of shame is heaped upon these subjects, and thorough discussions are avoided at all costs.
While I don't believe that any partner should forbid another partner from certain behaviors, I do believe that every partner should love and respect the other partner enough to abstain from hurtful behavior.
And, from a totally different angle, porn bothers me because of the far-reaching effects of the industry. I'm bothered by the insatiable desire for pornography and the fact that unwilling children and adults are abused and used as objects for others' entertainment.
So, basically, if it bothers either partner, then I believe the home should be porn-free. And, if it doesn't bother either partner, then I feel like we have a responsibility to only support legal/safe pornography, if such a thing exists.
Yes, all porn we watch are couples porn from bigger production companies. I absolutely agree that any and all porn MUST be consensual and legal.
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